Sunday, February 26, 2023

Today's Worship Service - First Sunday in Lent, February 26, 2023

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Worship Service for February 26, 2023

Prelude

Announcements:  

Call to Worship

L:      The Lord is my light and my salvation.

P:      We will not be afraid.

L:      The Lord is the stronghold of my life.

P:      We will not be afraid.

L:      Even when our adversaries and foes seek to destroy us,

P:      We will not be afraid.

L:      Come to the house of the Lord and behold God’s beauty.

P:      We will sing to the Lord and trust God!

L:      We will see the goodness of the Lord.

P:      We will be strong and place our trust in God!

 

Opening Hymn –  Near the Cross                  Hymn #319 Brown

Prayer of Confession

We confess to You, O God, that we are often afraid.  The criticism of others, the uncertainty of our own time, the hardships that veil our eyes from Your loving purpose, our own failure, and the evils of terror and war threaten to undo us.  Too often we despair and act as if You have abandoned us.  We give in to fear and retreat into self-preservation at the expense of others.  Forgive us, God.  By the power of Your Holy Spirit, renew our faith and courage so that we may find in our Lord Jesus Christ Your sure promise of love and salvation.  Lead us along Your way and help us to face each challenge in our lives.  Give us strong hearts and clear vision to resist evil and trust in You until we are finally at the table with You in our eternal home in heaven.  (Silent prayers are offered)  AMEN.

Assurance of Pardon

L:      God does not give us in to the temptations and ways of the world, but shelters us with love, with hope, with grace.

P:      We are forgiven people.  Our songs of joy are lifted to the One who forgives. 

 

Gloria Patri

Affirmation of Faith/Apostles’ Creed

I believe in God the Father Almighty, Maker of heaven and earth; And in Jesus Christ His only Son our Lord; who was conceived by the Holy Ghost, born of the Virgin Mary, suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, dead, and buried; He descended into hell; the third day He rose again from the dead; He ascended into heaven, and sitteth on the right hand of God the Father Almighty; from thence He shall come to judge the quick and the dead.

I believe in the Holy Ghost, the holy catholic Church; the communion of saints, the forgiveness of sins; the resurrection of the body; and the life everlasting.  AMEN

 

Pastoral Prayer and Lord’s Prayer

Jesus Christ, light of the world, we dare to bring our whole selves before you this morning, asking that you shine your purifying light on us once again.  Illumine the dark corners no one else sees – the shadows of doubt, the pockets of loneliness, the specters of fear, the gloom of discouragement.  Lift our face to behold you in the full radiance of your light, that something of your perfect love, truth, and peace may radiate into our lives and awaken us to the full truth of who we are, by your grace and in your mercy.

          Gracious Lord, shine your healing light into every place of darkness and despair, we especially think of those living under threat of violence – like those in the Ukraine, and in so many other places in the world, too, Lord.

          We also lift up to you our friends and loved ones…

 

          As we open our hearts, souls, and minds to you in this holy hour, hear the deepest movement of our inner selves – listen to our silent prayers this day….

 

          Help us Lord, hear your challenge anew for us to be the light of the world, and to let our light so shine that it brings thankful praise to You, the source of all light in heaven and earth as we pray together saying;

 

...Our Father who art in heaven, Hallowed be Thy name.  Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.  Give us this day our daily bread.  Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.  And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.  For Thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever.  AMEN.

 

Hymn –  What Wondrous Love Is This           Hymn #85/314

Scripture Reading(s): 

First Scripture Reading – Psalm 32

Second Scripture Reading – Matthew 4:1-11

Sermon –  Temptation”

 

A little boy named Bobby desperately wanted a new bicycle.  His plan was to save his nickels, dimes and quarters until he finally had enough to buy a new 10-speed.  Each night, he asked God to help him save his money.  Kneeling beside his bed, he prayed, “Dear Lord, please help me save my money for a new bike; and please, Lord, don’t let the ice cream man come down the street again tomorrow.”

We have all been there, haven’t we?  Unfortunately, we don’t take temptation seriously enough.  Many people think of ‘temptation’ as wanting to indulge in something that’s naughty but nice: like being tempted to have another chocolate or piece of cake; or being tempted to stay up and watch the late film; or have another half hour in bed… naughty, but pretty nice really!  However, that’s not the biblical view of temptation.  Temptation, if left unchecked, leads to sin, and sin is serious.  Sin affects our relationship with God, ourselves, and others.  Sin always has consequences, and it separates us from God… until it has been dealt with.

Today’s gospel reading begins by telling us that “Jesus, full of the Holy Spirit, returned from the Jordan and was led by the Spirit into the wilderness, where for forty days he was tempted by the devil.”

          Our Lenten journey always begins with the story of Jesus in the wilderness and with temptation.  Temptation is part of the human experience.  It’s not foreign to any of us and we shouldn’t minimize the draw or pull that it has on all of us.

          Temptation is like a wedge.  In the world of physics, there is no more powerful application than the wedge.  Once you get its thin edge in, it’s only a matter of time before it can split things apart.  The hardest stone, the toughest wood – no matter what it is – nothing is able to resist the power of the wedge to drive it apart.

          The remedy for temptation is more than just willpower.  The key to overcoming it is more than to “just say no.”  As much as I liked that slogan years ago for kids and drugs; it’s actually not that easy.  It would be so simple if that were the case, but it’s not as simple as that.  It isn’t that easy to just have enough willpower and to “just say no.”  Believe me, I’ve tried.  Luckily, I was never put in a position to be tempted by drugs, but there have been other temptations in my life and it’s simply not that easy to “just say no”; to have that willpower.  I don’t know about the rest of you, but I need more help than that.  Perhaps Mark Twain said it best, “I can resist anything except temptation.”

          As the Union Pacific Railroad was being constructed, an elaborate trestle bridge was built across a large canyon in the West.

Wanting to test the bridge, the builder loaded a train with enough extra cars and equipment to double its normal payload. The train then was driven to the middle of the bridge, where it stayed an entire day.

One worker asked, “Are you trying to break this bridge?”

“No,” the builder replied, “I’m trying to prove the bridge won’t break.”

In the same way, the temptations Jesus faced weren’t designed to see if He would sin, but to prove He couldn’t.

Jesus knew the power of temptation, but he also knew how to draw from the strength of God and to resist it.  He knew its allure for us, and he knew that the solution wasn’t as simple as plain willpower.  We need divine intervention from it.  And that’s where the power of prayer comes in.  That’s how we draw from the power of God.

          The key to temptation is not found within ourselves.  If it were, the apostle Paul would have found it, himself.  Instead he wrote, “Woe is me.  I do not understand what I do.  For what I want to do, I do not do.  But only what I hate, I do…wretched man that I am.  Who will rescue me from this sinful nature?  Thanks be to God who gives us the victory through Jesus Christ my Lord.”

          The key to overcoming temptation is found only in God.  It’s found only in allowing God’s Spirit to fill that void that temptation finds as a wedge to get in.  It’s found in allowing God’s power to empower us.

          There are two stories from Greek mythology that I’m reminded of here.  One is about Odysseus, the other is about Orpheus.  They both encountered mythical creatures called the Sirens, but they approached them from two different points of view.  The Sirens were evil creatures, half-bird and half-human who lived on an island surrounded by jagged rocks.  As ships approached the island, the sirens would sing a beautiful, seductive song that would lure the sailors to their death on the rocks.  When Odysseus approached the island he ordered the crew to fill their ears with wax to escape the tempter’s songs.  This done, he then commanded his men to bind him to the mast of the ship as they passed the island so that he could not change his orders.

          That is one way to resist temptation; to bind yourself up, put wax in your ears, close your eyes and cut yourself off from the world around you, but to go full-steam forward, hoping for the best.  Many have tried this method and have failed.  For many, this method doesn’t work because few people can really live that way and in fact, God doesn’t expect us to.

          The other story from ancient Greek mythology may be able to help us understand God a little bit more, though.  Orpheus, the Muse of Song, also came across this island and the terrible temptations of the sirens’ song.  Instead of putting wax in his sailor’s ears and binding himself to the mast, Orpheus sang a song of his own – a song so beautiful and divine that his sailors couldn’t hear the siren’s song and be lured to their death.  So, they passed by safely.

          And that, I think, is the clue for us in resisting temptation.  We need to fill our lives with a song so beautiful and divine, so much more alluring, that we won’t hear the voice of the tempter as he whispers his evil words in our ears and upon our hearts.  We need to fill our hearts and lives with God’s voice, with the Word of God, with the Spirit of God, with the ways and understandings of Christ, which is so much stronger than the tempter’s shallow words of quick gratification.

          That’s exactly what Jesus did in the wilderness, isn’t it?  To each of the tempter’s provocations, Jesus relied on the Word of God to guide him.  He centered his heart and life in God.

          We can overcome temptation, too.  We can overcome the tempter’s testing.  We can confront temptation face to face and survive.  But it starts with the heart, having our heart in the right place and filling our heart with the presence and power of God. 

So let me give you some practical advice about temptation, because “just saying no” doesn’t work and simply telling you to fill yourself up with the Word of God, is almost as ineffectual.  So, let’s get practical.

          First of all, never deal with temptation alone.  As embarrassing as it might be to tell another person, just remember - we are all tempted.  Being alone in the wilderness is exactly where the tempter wants us.  So, don’t be alone in facing it.  When you begin to think that you don’t need others, cast aside those thoughts.  They are the tempters’ words.  We aren’t strong enough to handle it alone.  Find someone you can trust to be accountable to, a spouse, a friend, a colleague.

          Secondly, don’t play with temptation.  It’s real.  I think we often fool ourselves in thinking that temptation sneaks up on us, surprising us when we’re weak.  It can do that, but it usually doesn’t.  Most often, temptation comes right to the front door and rings the bell.  We know that it’s wrong and we know we shouldn’t be doing it, but we tell ourselves it doesn’t matter or that we can resist at the last moment.  Worse yet, we often rationalize our temptations, trying to convince ourselves that it really isn’t wrong.  Don’t play with temptation, recognize it for what it is and refuse to have anything to do with it.

Most of you know, by now, that I struggle with my weight and staying healthy.  A few years ago I lost 70 lbs, but unfortunately during the pandemic when I didn’t focus properly or have my normal saints around me to hold me accountable, I have regained nearly 40 lbs of those that I’d lost.  So, I’m back at it again.

          Third and finally, lean on God’s help to deal with temptation.  There is nothing more powerful than prayer.  It is our link to God.  It is our way of asking for divine intervention.  It is God’s way of communicating with us.  Remember God wants us to live good lives, productive lives and abundant lives.  God wants us to experience the fullness of life – not the tempter’s empty promises.  Because of that, God stands ready to help in resisting temptation and in returning to God once we’ve fallen away.

          At the end of today’s gospel reading, the Bible tells us that God sent angels to minister to Jesus.  They were there to help Him, and they are here for us as well.  They may not come directly descending out of heaven, but rather in the guise of your neighbor next door, or your friends down the street or in those faces you love the most. 

Let this be the beginning of our Lenten journey, to resist temptation and be rewarded with the ministry of our own present-day angels that surround us.

Thanks be to God.

AMEN.

 

Offertory –

Doxology –

Prayer of Dedication –

We dedicate, O God, our lives and all that we have to the work of life, of love, of peace.  Receive our gifts this day and lead us, not into temptation, but in wisdom and courage.  AMEN.

Sacrament of the Lord’s Supper

          Invitation - Through the waters of baptism, we are born into Christ’s family.  That family is nourished and sustained at this table.  Though we are baptized but once, in the Lord’s Supper we reaffirm our commitment to Christ, and God renews us with grace.  You are part of the family of God, join us now at His table.  Let us give thanks to the Lord.

          Prayer of Thanksgiving

          L:      The Lord be with you.

          P:      And also with you.

          L:      Lift up your hearts.

          P:      We lift them up to the Lord.

          L:      Let us give thanks to the Lord our God.

 

          Breaking of the Bread and Sharing the Cup

Prayer

Let us pray.

Merciful Jesus,

We cry for our world.  We cry over broken bodies and broken homes and broken hearts.  We cry over violence and exclusion and indifference.  We cry most of all over the children!  Through my body and breath, we pray for Your kingdom …For all to have nourishing food and nurturing homes, edifying work and safe, skilled schools, compassionate healthcare and dignified wages, soft beds to fall into at the day’s close … for the children to be protected, the elderly honored, and both hugged every single day …  for reparative justice, cherished diversity, and peaceful purity in what’s breathed, eaten, and drunk.  We cry and we pray, O Lord, confessing the many times we’ve declared what we deserve rather than asked what we could give.  We cry and we pray, Precious Savior, knowing that we’re complicit in the pain but also essential to the healing.  We cry and we pray, Gracious God, trusting our tears mingle with Your own, hoping this tearful river softens and shapes the hardest canyons of injustice — or at least lays the groundwork.  We pray and in so doing, we act, moving our bodies and resources toward Your kingdom vision, trusting our skills and gifts carry forward the new, just world you imagine and are always bringing.

 

Holy Lord, we remember this work is ours to do in whatever ways are helping and edifying to You, and whatever ways we are capable and able to do.  O Jesus, have mercy on us and help us.

Your Son has no body now but ours, no hands, no feet on earth but ours,

Ours are the eyes with which he looks compassion on this world,

Ours are the feet with which He walks to do good,

Ours are the hands with which You bless all the world.  Let us cheerfully, eagerly, and boldly take up the task.

Amen.

 

Closing Hymn – O Sacred Head Now Wounded             Hymn #98/316

Benediction

          Friends, go out into the world with confidence and strength in the Lord.  May you always be at peace with Him.  AMEN.

Postlude

Sunday, February 19, 2023

Today's Worship Service - Sunday, February 19, 2023

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Worship Service for February 19, 2023

Prelude

Announcements:  

Food Bank Distribution will be held this Tuesday, Feb. 21, 2023 from 1-2:30pm at Olivet Presbyterian Church.

This we we begin Lent with our first Ash Wednesday Service at Bethesda United Presbyterian Church at 7pm.  We will be offering the Imposition of Ashes, curated from the Palms from last year's Lent/Easter season.

Next Sunday we will celebrate Holy Communion at both churches on the First Sunday in Lent.

Call to Worship

L:      The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, the love of God, and the communion of the Holy Spirit be with you all.

P:      And also with you.

L:      Let us worship God.  Clap your hands all you peoples;

P:      Shout to God with loud songs of joy.

L:      For the Most High is awesome.

P:      A great sovereign over all the earth.

L:      It is good to give thanks to the Lord.

P:      To sing praises to Your name, O Most High.

 

Opening Hymn –  Spirit of God, Descend Upon My Heart                Hymn #326/390

Prayer of Confession

Mighty and Merciful God, You have called us to be Your people and claimed us for the service of Jesus Christ.  We confess that we have not lived up to our calling.  We have been timid and frightened disciples, forgetful of Your powerful presence and the strength of Your Spirit among us.  O God, forgive our foolish and sinful ways.  As You have chosen us, claimed us in our baptisms, strengthen us anew to choose Christ’s way in this world.  Give us Your Holy Spirit that each one in ministry may be provided with all the gifts of grace needed to fulfill our common calling; through Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior.  (Silent prayers are offered)  AMEN.

Assurance of Pardon

L:      The proof of God’s amazing love is this: while we were sinners Christ died for us.  Believe the good news of the gospel: Christ died in order to redeem us back to God. 

P:      In Jesus Christ we are forgiven.  AMEN!

 

Gloria Patri

Affirmation of Faith/Apostles’ Creed

I believe in God the Father Almighty, Maker of heaven and earth; And in Jesus Christ His only Son our Lord; who was conceived by the Holy Ghost, born of the Virgin Mary, suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, dead, and buried; He descended into hell; the third day He rose again from the dead; He ascended into heaven, and sitteth on the right hand of God the Father Almighty; from thence He shall come to judge the quick and the dead.

I believe in the Holy Ghost, the holy catholic Church; the communion of saints, the forgiveness of sins; the resurrection of the body; and the life everlasting.  AMEN

 

Pastoral Prayer and Lord’s Prayer

Holy God, who revealed the anointed Messiah to Peter, James, and John on the mountaintop, may You also be revealed to us.  Fill us with praise, overflowing with cheers and mysterious visions of peace and justice for all.  Light our way; direct our course; and energize us for the journey ahead.  For we have one more mountain to climb each and every day.  We are thankful for the opportunities Lord, to represent You on earth, but often we fail to live up to the world’s expectations of us, let alone Yours.  So, in our time of prayer this morning, give us a moment to breathe deeply of Your strength, breathe deeply of Your love, breathe deeply of Your grace and mercy, so that we can truly be Your hands and feet working out Your will each and every day. 

We pray for our loved ones today….We especially lift up to you…

 

Now hear our concerns, joys, and sorrows in this moment of silence…

 

Gathered together, we say aloud the prayer Your son taught us saying...Our Father who art in heaven, Hallowed be Thy name.  Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.  Give us this day our daily bread.  Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.  And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.  For Thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever.  AMEN.

 

Hymn –  Open My Eyes                 Hymn #324/563

Scripture Reading(s): 

First Scripture Reading – Exodus 24:12-18

Second Scripture Reading – Matthew 17:1-9

Sermon –

 

Mountaintop Experiences Found in the Valleys of Life

(based on Matthew 17:1-9)

 

          Today’s message will be rather brief as we need to make time for our Annual Meeting following worship today.  Once again, I want to say a word of thanks for giving me the opportunity to take a Sabbatical last year.  As I continue to write about my experiences and spend time in prayer about them, I am constantly amazed at God’s hand at work from the time that I began thinking of a theme, making my plans and arrangements, throughout each day of the journey, and the encounters I had.  And God’s hand at work continues today as I talk about my time away and begin my writing project.

          Today’s scripture reading is the story of Jesus being transfigured on the top of the mountain with his inner circle of trusted disciples – Peter, James, and John.  It is the story right before Lent begins that we read every year, whether we read it from Matthew or from Luke’s gospel.  It is nearly identical.  And this story ties in very much to my Sabbatical leave. 

One of the aspects of the Sabbatical was for me to take at least three intensive guided retreats – one in Spain, one in France, and one in Italy.  I did some additional impromptu ones, as well.  To be perfectly honest, by and large, I was disappointed in all of them.  I don’t really know why.  Surrounded by centuries’ old artifacts like stained glass windows that dated to the 15th Century or wooden pews that dated to the 1100’s or stone that was worn-warped from the steps of people like St Francis or St Clair, the energy of spirits and souls of countless previous pilgrims who had also sought God’s guidance, I would have thought I was in just the right place to hear God speak.  Perhaps my expectations were too high.  Perhaps I had expected the transfigured Christ to appear, for Moses and Elijah to sit at the right and left hand of the Messiah in majestic splendor, for my loved ones who have gone before me to show up with arms outstretched in love and care.  Perhaps I expected God to give me direction or a cause or a purpose or some sign that I’ve been a good steward after all these years in ministry.  I don’t really know what I was expecting, but I expected something grand.  Something inspiring.  Something tantalizing, energizing, or motivational for the years ahead.  Being in a place that I would have called a mountaintop experience, if not literally on a mountaintop, I had thought God would show up.

Instead, I often found myself distracted by the silence, led in my mind to places I don’t like to go about my own faults and failures, about whether I was even worthy of being in a pulpit.  About a time I had acted harshly and should have been kinder to someone, or had failed to help someone, or had misunderstood someone’s meaning and held a grudge.  The silence often led me to think about things back home, about the worries of the day, about whether the locals hated that I couldn’t speak their language better.  I sometimes fidgeted with my clothes or a piece of paper I found on the ground.  I worried about when I should test for Covid again, just to be safe.  The silence often gave way to nit-picky worrying things.

However, before you get a totally wrong impression, my time on these retreats weren’t completely wasted.  I also thought about the meaning of particular bible passages that I was reading, about how the meaning or the verse applied to my life, about how I could use it in a future sermon.  I thought about the history of those who had sat in the very same place I was sitting, about their journeys and their every day worries and how God had directed their lives.  I also thought about each one of you.  About your own journeys and worries and successes.  About your families and how I’ve gotten to be part of your lives.  But, I never had a breakthrough, mountaintop experience at these times.

Instead, I had those at a sidewalk café, watching a gentleman lovingly deal with his autistic son or younger brother, watching a disabled street performer interact with a young child who was simply delighted and awed by the man’s tricks or could have cared less about the man’s disabilities and cared more about how he was being entertained, in conversations I had with fellow travelers who opened up to me about their own faith and their beliefs and even about their concerns for the day, in the generosity of strangers who came to my aid when I was lost or confused about where I was going, or those who fed me when they knew I hadn’t had anything to eat, when I broke down in tears by a river under a willow tree in remembering my sister, when pivots or resilience or change of plans brought me to the low points of my trip.  It was actually in those valley moments that God showed up and transfigured before me in the faces of complete strangers, in places I hadn’t expected. 

So, my message to you this morning, is that if you are looking for a mountaintop experience, you may not find it where you expect.  You may not find God when you want God to show up, but rather you just might find God where you least expect Him, but when you need Him most.

Offertory –

Doxology –

Prayer of Dedication –

God of both mountain tops and plains, giver of all good gifts.  We ask that You bless these gifts brought to You today.  May they honor our commitment to further Your work of love and justice in the world.  In Your name we pray.  Amen.

Closing Hymn – Amazing Grace          Hymn #280/343

Benediction

Friends, walk in the light and in truth.  See the light of Christ in every face. 

Be the light of Christ to all you meet.  AMEN.

 

Postlude

Sunday, February 12, 2023

Today's Worship Service - Sunday, February 12, 2023

 You can find our live worship service on Facebook at 11:15am Sunday morning.

Worship Service for February 12, 2023

Prelude

Announcements:  

Call to Worship

L:      We are crucified with Christ.

P:      It is no longer we who live, but Christ who lives in us.

L:      For to live is Christ and to die gain.

P:      Come, Lord Jesus.  May Your loving Holy Spirit fill us in this time of worship.

Opening Hymn –  Near to the Heart of God            Hymn #527/617

Prayer of Confession

How often, merciful God, have we acted to please others rather than acting to please You!  How often have we thought first of ourselves and only then, if at all, of You!  We repent, for You alone must be the highest priority, the supreme goal of our lives.  We must live for You alone, all we say and do must be out of love for You.  Yet, Lord, You know how hard this ideal is for us to achieve.  We need Your help, Your grace, Your strength, and Your wisdom to sustain and guide us, or we will fail.  We turn to You to teach us to love You with all our hearts and minds and souls and strength.  Be with us always.  (Silent prayers are offered)  AMEN.

Assurance of Pardon

L:      Friends, hear the Good News!  We share the promise of God with His people through the sacrifice of Christ. 

P:      Though we are unworthy, we are granted God’s favor in Jesus Christ, and are baptized into the church of His beloved Son.

Gloria Patri

Affirmation of Faith/Apostles’ Creed

I believe in God the Father Almighty, Maker of heaven and earth; And in Jesus Christ His only Son our Lord; who was conceived by the Holy Ghost, born of the Virgin Mary, suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, dead, and buried; He descended into hell; the third day He rose again from the dead; He ascended into heaven, and sitteth on the right hand of God the Father Almighty; from thence He shall come to judge the quick and the dead.

I believe in the Holy Ghost, the holy catholic Church; the communion of saints, the forgiveness of sins; the resurrection of the body; and the life everlasting.  AMEN

Pastoral Prayer and Lord’s Prayer

Holy God,

This day we are reminded of the suffering of those in our own community.  We pray for their health and safety.  We pray for their healing and finding solutions to their problems.  And as we expand our view to those outside of our community, we pray especially today for those who have suffered greatly in Syria and Turkey.  We pray what the Psalmist wrote in Psalm 10:

Lord, you know the hopes of the helpless.  Surely, you will hear their cries and comfort them.  You will bring justice to the orphans and the oppressed.

Comfort the people whose family members and friends have died as a result of these earthquakes.  Draw close to them.  Equip believers in Syria and Turkey to show the love of Christ to their neighbors by helping in tangible ways.  Inspire generosity in the hearts of people across the world.  In the face of such destruction and loss, empower us to show radical love to our own neighbors who might be experiencing grief of the loss of life, beauty, and peace.  Let us not turn away, but help those in need those who are suffering and bear witness to Your presence with them. 

Today, we also pray for our own loved ones…

And now listen to the voice of our hearts as we pray in silence.

Aloud, we pray together saying…

Our Father who art in heaven, Hallowed be Thy name.  Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.  Give us this day our daily bread.  Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.  And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.  For Thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever.  AMEN.

 

Hymn –  A Mighty Fortress Is Our God                   Hymn #260/151

Scripture Reading(s): 

First Scripture Reading – Psalm 119:1-8

Second Scripture Reading – Matthew 5:21-26

Sermon –  Forgiveness and Redemption

(based on Matthew 5:21-26 and the story from Genesis 27-33 regarding brothers Jacob and Esau)


Have you ever been hurt by someone else, and wanted to hurt them back?  Or get even with them?  Or seek some kind of revenge?  Or retaliate against them for what they did to you?  Or maybe, worse, it kept eating you up inside in silence so that you couldn’t eat or sleep?

Our New Testament Scripture reading this morning from Matthew says "So, if you are offering your gift on the altar, and there you remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar.  First go and be reconciled with your brother or sister…then come and offer your gift".  Asking for forgiveness and admitting that you’ve done something terribly wrong to another person or being willing to forgive the person that has offended you are never easy tasks.  But what’s even harder is being reconciled to that person – being in a restored relationship with them.  And yet, this is the most important part of forgiveness.

The Old Testament actually gives us a wonderful example of this in Jacob and Esau.  It covers about 5 chapters in Genesis from chapters 27-33.  The story of Esau and Jacob reads like a juicy novel. The brothers were born to Isaac, the son of Abraham.  When Isaac was near death, he desired to give to Esau, the older of the two brothers, his blessing. In biblical times, a blessing was to grant another a place of honor and status, to publicly declare that this person being blessed was, in essence, to replace you.  And, usually, the blessing is given to the firstborn son. In this case, that would have been Esau.  Yet, as the story unfolds, Jacob, the younger son, tricks and deceives his father, Isaac, so that the blessing is given to Jacob, instead.  Imagine the shock and horror that Esau feels when he learns of the deception.

Unfortunately, because of Esau’s anger towards his brother, Jacob has to leave town.  At some point in Jacob’s travels he lays down to sleep and is met by visiting angels in his dreams.  I think those angels showed up for a reason.  I think it was to convict Jacob that before things can be right with God they have to be right with his brother.

Jesus said that very thing in our lesson this morning from Matthew.  If you are offering a gift at worship - of money, of praise - and you remember somebody has ill will or hard feelings against you, go to that person and make it right, make amends, seek reconciliation.

I wonder if sometimes our worship is meaningless, our work is ineffective, our prayers are unanswered is because we have not reconciled with our brothers or your sisters?  And the phrase brother or sister in scripture is simply shorthand for any other person.  It could be a child or a parent, it could be a cousin or an aunt or uncle.  It could be the neighbor down the street or an old best friend.  It doesn’t matter who the person is.

Jacob knew that he had done wrong. Now he knew he had to make it right. He had to take the first step.  Restoring a cracked relationship is like mending a broken arm. If your arm is broken you take initiative to get to a doctor so he can set it, put a cast on it, so healing can take place. Broken relationships, like broken arms, are never mended accidentally. They require purposeful and intentional action.  We may try to deny the pain or ignore the split.  We may think that time heals all wounds, but it only moves the pain below the surface, where it will always affect future relationships.

Now, of course, the relationship is easier to mend when the offender apologizes to the offended. But, what if the offender does not admit their wrong? What then? Too often, many of us resort to our Junior High days when someone has hurt us or offended us. We go to everyone else to plead our side of the story, to validate our feelings, to justify our anger, and we don't go to the person who has offended us. But the Bible tells us to go directly to that person and talk to them in private.  That’s easier said than done, but it’s necessary if you want to restore the relationship, because even the offended has a role to play.

So when we go to that person, what do we say?  Well, mathematics teaches us that "the shortest distance between two points is a straight line." The same principle is true in reconciling relationships. The shortest distance between two people is a straight line. A straight line like: "I was wrong," or "I haven't been honest with you" or "Your actions hurt me," or "I love you too much to allow our relationship to crumble."  Get right to it.

The most important part at this stage however, is to clarify not confront.  Often when we’ve gotten up enough strength to come to the other person, it is in an attitude of confrontation, in an accusatory or revenge seeking mode.  I would suggest that, instead, you seek to clarify first.  Not always, but often, the issue at hand is a misunderstanding. Someone said something that was taken out of context or stated incorrectly.  So seek first to understand, to clarify.

In our story with Jacob and Esau, you’ll find that after being convicted of his own behavior Jacob prayed, now granted, he prayed for the wrong reasons, but, he, nevertheless, prayed.  He prayed that Esau would spare his life.  Prayer is always the best place to start, it can be the salve for wounded parties and the lubricant for friction in relationships.

This process of reconciliation is not a cake walk. It will often be messy.  Hearts have been hardened.  Feelings have been hurt.  Emotions are on edge.  Wounds are gaping.  The offended when approached by the offender may look for an ulterior motive and may feel that the offender is disingenuous.  The offended may be thinking, "Why after all these years do you want to get together now?  Why do you want to make things right now?"

God needs time to soften hearts, to ease emotions, to heal wounds, to bring understanding to the reconciling parties.  And there is no greater power available to us for that to happen than prayer.  Because prayer changes us.

On that morning after all those years had gone by, Esau and Jacob met.  Jacob humbled himself before his brother by ". . . bowing to the ground seven times until he approached his brother" (Genesis 33:3).  He came with the right spirit and the right attitude.  He acknowledged that he had done the wrong.  He was the deceiver.  He tricked his brother out of his blessing.  He was at fault.

Every action of reconciliation requires that someone in the hurting relationship, preferably both parties, admit their fault and their desire to repair the damage.

At the face to face meeting Genesis tells us that "…Esau ran to meet him, hugged him, threw his arms around him, and kissed him.  Then they wept" (Genesis 33:4).  The two brothers embraced, throwing their arms around each other.  The action of both Jacob and Esau is a picture of vulnerability.  To embrace someone else is always to expose your heart, especially in a broken relationship.  And to expose your heart is to reveal your part in the damaged relationship.  Here, you reveal the hurt and the pain you caused.  You admit that you were wrong.

Now, here is the rub.  Whenever you expose your heart you stand the chance of having your heart broken, again.  People will let you down, disappoint you, and trample your emotions.  Crawling into a shell, living in isolation would be easier.  There, safe from the pain and hurt of relationships, you could shut out all of humanity.

Could it be that you have been hurt so deeply that you don't want to expose your heart again?  But do you really want to live that way?  Do you want to go through life living in a cocoon, safe from the hurtful arrows of others, but cut off from the relationships that give you love and life and joy?

Jacob wanted to find favor in the eyes of Esau.  He sought peace.  He desired to put the past behind him.  He humbled himself before Esau. He opened up his heart.  He wanted most of all forgiveness.  And Esau embraced Jacob.  As they held each other, I'm sure that Jacob said, "Please forgive me, brother." Then, Esau spoke those life-changing words, "Brother, I forgive you."  Forgiveness is not optional in reconciling a broken relationship.  Forgiveness involves letting go so you can get on with the rest of your life.  Forgiveness means that there will be no continuing resentment or bitterness.  We hope for the best for the other.  Forgiveness is a long healing, not a momentary one.

Jacob wanted to make things right.  He had harmed and wronged his brother.  He had stolen his birthright and all the inheritance that goes with it.  So, he brought with him droves of herds and flocks to make restitution for the wrong Esau had suffered.  Restitution is attempting to restore that which has been damaged or destroyed and seeking justice whenever we have the power to act or to influence those in authority to act.

Restitution is much easier when it comes to physical property.  If you have taken physical property, you give it back or you pay for it.  However, restitution is much more difficult when you have said words that have damaged a person's name and character.

Here's the question: In what ways do you need to restore that which you have damaged in the broken relationship?

Jacob acknowledges his wrong; he reconciles.  Esau forgives.  The once broken relationship is mended.  Wouldn't it be nice if all broken relationship ended that way?  It can.

If you want to know what the face of God looks like, go to the brother or sister you have offended, ask for their forgiveness, then, hear them say, "You are forgiven."  When forgiveness is extended to the brother or sister who has wounded us, we are like God.  The absence of this process of reconciliation robs the church of the power of unity.  As God has forgiven you, you are to forgive those who have hurt you.  As God has reconciled with you, you are to reconcile with others.

May the kingdom of God begin with us and if any harbors resentment or harm, let us ask for forgiveness and be reconciled.  Thanks be to God.  AMEN.

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Prayer of Dedication –

Gracious God, as we present these offerings, may we be reminded of the many blessings You have shared with us as individuals , and as a community of believers.  You have nurtured us with a love that knows no limits or boundaries.  May our sharing this day reveal our priorities and our promises, for we belong to You and offer You our gifts, that they may be used in mission and in ministry to bring glory to You.  Amen.

Closing Hymn – Precious Lord, Take My Hand             Hymn #404/684

Benediction

          As we journey out into the world, may each of us walk in the light of God’s ways, striving to be blameless and just.  Hold us fast to not be led astray, but may God’s unconditional love cover us when we do.  Go in peace!

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