Sunday, December 18, 2022

Worship Service for the Fourth Sunday in Advent, Sunday December 18, 2022

 

Worship Service for December 18, 2022

Prelude

Announcements:  

Bright Beginnings Preschool Christmas Program at Bethesda Tuesday, December 20 at 10am

Food Bank at Olivet – Tuesday, December 20 at 12:30pm

Christmas Eve Service at Bethesda on Saturday, December 24 at 7pm

Christmas Day Service at Olivet on Sunday, December 25 at 9:45am

 

Call to Worship

L:      Let us rejoice in God our Savior, who has done great things for us;

P:      Who fills the hungry with good things!

L:      Let us open ourselves to the Spirit of life and new birth!

P:      Let us worship God!

 

Lighting of the Advent Wreath

Today we light the fourth Advent candle, we’ll call it the Shepherds’ candle.  This candle is offered in honor of the shepherds whose love and care for their sheep become the example of God’s love for us.  We remember that the shepherds were the first witnesses of our Savior’s birth.  In honor of all good shepherds and, especially, Jesus Christ, we light this candle.

Prayer:

  Dear God, our Good Shepherd, empower our lives to be filled with love, that in loving others we might bear witness to Your love for us.  We give You thanks for the shepherds, especially Jesus.  AMEN.

 

Opening Hymn –  Away in a Manger   Hymn #25/261

Prayer of Confession

We sing, “O Come All Ye Faithful,” God, but we confess that we are not always faithful.  We could have shown love this past week, but we kept ourselves busy with other things.  We spoke without thinking and hurt someone.  We treated the gifts and greetings and meals as chores, leaving out the most important ingredient – caring.  We are sorry.  Please forgive us and accept our worship.  Amid the bright colors that surround us this season – the red, the green, the gold – send the light of Your Christ, that all that is good may be revealed more clearly and all that is wrong may be exposed and changed.  We pray in the name of Jesus who as born in Bethlehem, who now lives and reigns with You and the Holy Spirit, now and forever.  (Silent prayers are offered)  AMEN.

 

Assurance of Pardon

L:      As Emmanuel descends to us, casting out our sin and entering in, we are born again in Christ.

P:      Thanks be to God.  AMEN.

 

Gloria Patri

Affirmation of Faith/Apostles’ Creed

I believe in God the Father Almighty, Maker of heaven and earth; And in Jesus Christ His only Son our Lord; who was conceived by the Holy Ghost, born of the Virgin Mary, suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, dead, and buried; He descended into hell; the third day He rose again from the dead; He ascended into heaven, and sitteth on the right hand of God the Father Almighty; from thence He shall come to judge the quick and the dead.

I believe in the Holy Ghost, the holy catholic Church; the communion of saints, the forgiveness of sins; the resurrection of the body; and the life everlasting.  AMEN

Anthem - Is Your Heart Prepared for a King

Pastoral Prayer and Lord’s Prayer

All praise we lift up to you, Emmanuel, God-promised, and God with us; all praise to you in the silence and the singing of this most sacred season.  Because of you, stars shine in our lives and our poor manger places become holy straw.  May the good tidings of peace on earth and good will to the people of the earth be on our lips, as it was with the shepherds and the angels.  We give you thanks that a voice cried out in the wilderness to shed light on the one who is coming.  We give you thanks for becoming human – weak and poor, cold and lonely.  As we become more human for knowing you – more able to lift our burdens and open our doors to strangers; more willing to believe that you are near.  That we are also the voices of one, crying out in the wilderness, shedding light onto the one who has come!  We give you thanks for the hope of this season.  For the love which you lavished on us at Christmas.  And for the Joy we have knowing that you are indeed near.  This morning we give you thanks for choosing the low and the rejected and the broken.  Help us find mercy in our struggles and courage in the rough places and crooked paths.

We also lift up to you this day our words of both joys and concerns, knowing that you hear the victory of our souls and the groaning of our hearts in those words.  In the silence, hear us O Lord,

Holy God, we now unite in one voice offering the prayer Your Son taught us to pray

…Our Father who art in heaven, Hallowed be Thy name.  Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.  Give us this day our daily bread.  Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.  And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.  For Thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever.  AMEN.

 

Hymn –  The First Noel                 Hymn #56/265

Scripture Reading(s): 

First Scripture Reading – Psalm 80

Second Scripture Reading – Matthew 1:18-25

Sermon –  The Man at the Manger

(Based on Matthew 1:18-25)

 

We know the Christmas Story well.  It is one that we’ve told over and over again each year.  We’ve sung the hymns, heard the carols, read the passages.  But, of the many stories, characters, and elements of the Christmas story, the one we are most likely to overlook is Joseph.  There are songs about the angels coming down from heaven glorifying God with their voices, there are songs about the shepherds keeping watch over the flocks in the fields, there are songs about Mary wondering if she knew who her child truly was, there are songs about the Wisemen that travel from distant lands in the east bringing specific gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh, there are songs about the innkeeper who couldn’t find room in his inn for the couple, there are songs about the bells ringing out on Christmas day, there’s even a song about a non-existent drummer boy who visits the manger and brings the only gift he has to the baby Jesus, but as far as I know there are no songs about Joseph.    

Certainly, Mary and her special child are at the center of the story, and we love to recall the shepherds in the fields and the wise men bearing gifts.  However, look at the average nativity scene; Joseph is usually that guy standing in the back of the scene, looking on while everyone else gathers around the manger.

As most of you know, I collect Nativity sets and I have quite a few of them in which each year, I have to decide and assign the role of Joseph to one of several possible candidates because I’m not exactly sure whether he’s just one of the shepherds, the innkeeper or is the husband of Mary.  In the end for many of the artists that created the nativity scenes, he’s just a non-descript male standing by, adoring the child.

One year, at one of the church’s I pastored, we were doing the Christmas play with the kids.  The author of the play had decided to skip over this passage in Matthew in telling the Christmas story. 

In the play the angel came to Mary to tell her about her expected child and Mary, full of joy, accepted her role as the mother of Jesus.  Mary and Joseph then traveled to Bethlehem where they found a grumpy innkeeper who only had a barn for the couple.  Angels came down out of heaven to a startled group of shepherds to proclaim the Lord’s birth, who then said to one another that they must see this marvelous sight.  The wisemen spoke to one another about the star they had seen in the heavens and decided to follow it bringing gifts to the newborn child.  Each group gathered at the manger, adoring the child whom Mary held out to each one.  In the play, even the sheep bleated and the cows mooed.  But Joseph had no lines.  The biggest role he had was to walk from one end of the stage to the other with Mary on the donkey, who also brayed from the long journey and the heavy load.  At the end of our dozen or more rehearsals – the young boy playing the role of Joseph comes up and asks me, “What am I supposed to be doing?  Am I supposed to just stand there the whole time?”

And yet Matthew reminds us in our passage this morning that Joseph was a central and essential character in the Christmas drama.  In fact, the depth of character shown by Joseph serves as a model for each one of us during this time of celebration.

Matthew tells us that Joseph was a "righteous man" in verse 19, but I can't help thinking that this standalone description was an understatement.  I think God selected a very special man to serve as the human father and model for Jesus, a man who would demonstrate integrity, honor, and virtue as the boy Jesus grew into a man.  A man who kept his promises and would teach Jesus the ways of God.

The events described in this text offer one bit of evidence of the kind of man Joseph was.  What a bitter blow it must have been to discover that young Mary, who was promised to him in marriage, was bearing a child.  Can you imagine the thoughts and suspicions that would have gone through your mind in his situation?  How would you have responded, especially in that culture, when you could certainly have exacted a dramatic measure of punishment for what you thought was a betrayal?  Mary could have been brought forward to the community by Joseph and publicly executed for her faithlessness to Joseph.

Instead, Joseph's concern was for protecting Mary from public ridicule and punishment.  Even at a moment in his life when he must have felt deeply hurt, he was anxious to protect the one he thought had hurt him.  That is a depth of character not often found in his or any other day.

God knew that He could use Joseph because he had a compassionate heart and was a man of honor.  Do we seek to demonstrate the kind of character in our lives that will enable God to more effectively use us?

Imagine having the kind of dream Joseph had that night, and learning that the basis for his predicament was actually the work of God, and that the child your future wife is bearing is the Messiah, the "anointed one" of God.  What would have thought?  What would you have done?  Think about how Joseph must have felt.  Didn’t he have a right to be angry, to be hurt?  The circumstances surrounding this birth were irregular, to say the least.  Wouldn’t he be a laughing-stock, a source of gossip, among the villagers?  Who would believe that it was the Holy Spirit who conceived this child?  What is truly remarkable in Joseph is that he chose not to indulge himself in these feelings.  What is truly remarkable is that over his own agenda–he chose God’s agenda.  Joseph's response was a simple one: "When Joseph woke up, he did what the angel of the Lord commanded him" (v. 24).  God isn't looking for the best and the brightest, the most handsome or beautiful, the most polished or popular.  God is looking for men and women who will be responsive to his will; people who are willing to hear and obey. 

After our passage in Matthew from this morning Joseph pretty much disappears.  We know he was related to the illustrious King David.  We know he was a Carpenter–a tradesperson which would have put him squarely in the Middle Class of his time and local economy–and we know that he was chosen by God to be the human father of our Lord Jesus Christ.  Beyond this, we know practically nothing.

What are we to make of this strange scarcity of information?  What are the scriptures trying to teach us about Joseph?  We can be certain that if Scripture mentions him at all he is crucial to God’s overall message to us–as if there were something we could learn in particular about our contemplation of Joseph.  We know little to nothing–after this passage and a couple of other references–Joseph fades from view.  It’s almost as if God calls our attention to him only to make him disappear. 

Consider your own life.  Consider how often true greatness and true virtue consists in self-restraint.  What we do not do is as important–and perhaps if we are to hear the Word of God in the brief story of Joseph–it is even more important at times–then what we actually do do.

How many times are we faced with a choice between clinging to our own concerns and edifying a larger whole?  How many times must we decide between indulging ourselves in our own lesser qualities–and the larger task of learning to live together peacefully and fruitfully.  Perhaps the lesson to be learned in the story of Joseph is that there is true strength and greatness in learning when to get out of the way–when to be silent–when to sacrifice our lesser needs to God’s greater plan of salvation and reconciliation.

One might go so far as to say that if Joseph is important at all, from a Scriptural point of view–it is not so much because of what he accomplished himself–but because of what he allowed others to accomplish because of the man he was, because of his internal character.  Perhaps the true greatness of Joseph, then, lies not so much in the great things he, himself did, but in his ability to not be an obstacle to great deeds–his talent for fading into the background so that others might shine.

Thanks be to God.  AMEN.

Offertory –

Doxology –

Prayer of Dedication –

O Gracious God, bless our offerings this day that it may reach and touch those who hunger, who hurt, who seek new hope.  We dedicate our lives and all that we have to the work of life, of love, of peace.  Receive these, our gifts in joy, and lead us in wisdom and courage.  AMEN.

Closing Hymn – I Cannot Tell              Hymn #354 Brown Hymnal

Benediction

Postlude

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