Sunday, May 9, 2021

Worship Service and Sermon-ette for Sunday, May 9, 2021

 

Worship Service for May 9, 2021

Announcements –

         We will be led in worship by Rev. Bob Ruefle at Olivet (9:45am) and at Bethesda (11:15am), but here is my posted worship service with another snip-it of a sermon.  I will be back in the pulpit at both churches next week.

·      Session Zoom Meeting on Tuesday, May 11 at 7:00pm

·      Food Bank delivery at Olivet on Friday, May 14 at 9:30am

Happy Mother's Day

Prelude – Panis Angelicus with Hauser, Cello

Call to Worship

L:      O sing to the Lord a new song, for God has done marvelous things.

P:      The Lord has made known His victory.

L:      The earth has seen the victory of our God.

P:      Make a joyful noise to the Lord, all the earth;

L:      break forth into joyous song and sing praises.

P:      Let the sea roar, and all that fills it; the world and those who live     in it.

L:      Let the flood clap their hands, let the hills sing together for joy at the   presence of the Lord.

P:      For the Lord is coming to judge the earth.  He will judge the

world with righteousness, and the peoples with equity.

 

Opening Hymn – Christ is Made the Sure Foundation

Prayer of Confession

         Jesus, friend and brother, You taught us to abide in Your generous love, for it completes our lives and gives us joy; You ask us to love others as You have loved us, for it brings Your creation to fruition.  We sometimes struggle to love the people in our lives as You have loved us.  Forgive us, we pray, and teach us Your love again.  (silent prayers are offered)  AMEN.

Assurance of Pardon

L:      Long ago Jesus said to His disciples, “I have called you friends, because I made known to you everything that I have heard from God.  You did not choose me, but I chose you!”  Jesus speaks these words to us today.  Jesus forgives us and chooses us to be His friends, sharing His great work of love.

P:      Thanks be to God,  Hallelujah!

 

Gloria Patri

Affirmation of Faith/Apostles’ Creed

I believe in God the Father Almighty, Maker of heaven and earth; And in Jesus Christ His only Son our Lord; who was conceived by the Holy Ghost, born of the Virgin Mary, suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, dead, and buried; He descended into hell; the third day He rose again from the dead; He ascended into heaven, and sitteth on the right hand of God the Father Almighty; from thence He shall come to judge the quick and the dead.

I believe in the Holy Ghost, the holy catholic Church; the communion of saints, the forgiveness of sins; the resurrection of the body; and the life everlasting.  AMEN

 

Pastoral Prayer

Almighty God, Your strength and might overshadow the darkness of the world.  Your presence gives us joy and contentment, even in the midst of suffering.  Hear us as we cry out to You, and enter every situation of need with Your life-giving love.  Teach us to trust You through every trial and problem we face, that we might serve as a witness to others of Your unfailing love and mercy.  In the same way You come to us with compassion and grace, send us to others with the light of Your hope.  Today we also give thanks for our mothers and for all the women in our lives who have been like mothers to us - who have nurtured us and given us comfort, strength, compassion, and wisdom.  We honor them with our own lives.  This day, we also offer up in prayer…

In this time of silence Lord, hear the prayers of our hearts.

In God’s amazing grace, God hears our every prayer.  Now, with one voice, we pray together saying…

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name.  Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.  Give us this day our daily bread.  Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.  And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.  For Thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever.  AMEN.

 

Scripture Reading(s): 

Psalm 98:1-9

1O sing to the Lord a new song, for he has done marvelous things. His right hand and his holy arm have gotten him victory.

2The Lord has made known his victory; he has revealed his vindication in the sight of the nations.

3He has remembered his steadfast love and faithfulness to the house of Israel. All the ends of the earth have seen the victory of our God.

4Make a joyful noise to the Lord, all the earth; break forth into joyous song and sing praises.

5Sing praises to the Lord with the lyre, with the lyre and the sound of melody.

6With trumpets and the sound of the horn make a joyful noise before the King, the Lord.

7Let the sea roar, and all that fills it; the world and those who live in it.

8Let the floods clap their hands; let the hills sing together for joy

9at the presence of the Lord, for he is coming to judge the earth. He will judge the world with righteousness, and the peoples with equity.

1 John 5:1-6

Everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ has been born of God, and everyone who loves the parent loves the child. 2By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God and obey his commandments. 3For the love of God is this, that we obey his commandments. And his commandments are not burdensome, 4for whatever is born of God conquers the world. And this is the victory that conquers the world, our faith. 5Who is it that conquers the world but the one who believes that Jesus is the Son of God?

6This is the one who came by water and blood, Jesus Christ, not with the water only but with the water and the blood.  And the Spirit is the one that testifies, for the Spirit is the truth.

 

Sermon – For Whatever is Born of God, Conquers the World

         Verse 4 in this letter from John struck me in today’s reading, “For whatever is born of God, conquers the world.”  What, then, is born of God?  If we can answer that question, we might be able to do what the author of this letter says, “conquer the world”.  One of the themes that has been coming up over and over again in our lectionary readings recently is the idea of loving one another – so, I think it might be safe to say that love is born of God.  And the second aspect of this is our own creation.  Out of love God created us.  We were made because of God’s great love for God’s own creation and all things were made for our enjoyment. 

         However, there are moments in life when we don’t feel particularly loved.  There are moments in life when the burdens, worries, pain, and suffering overshadow all else; when we are falling apart.  A friend of mine recently posted this dialogue between a person and God and I thought I’d share it.

Me: Hey God.

God: Hello.....

Me: I'm falling apart. Can you put me back together?

God: I would rather not.

Me: Why?

God: Because you aren't a puzzle.

Me: What about all of the pieces of my life that are falling down onto the ground?

God: Let them stay there for a while. They fell off for a reason. Take some time and decide if you need any of those pieces back.

Me: You don't understand! I'm breaking down!

God: No - you don't understand. You are breaking through. What you are feeling are just growing pains. You are shedding the things and the people in your life that are holding you back. You aren't falling apart. You are falling into place. Relax. Take some deep breaths and allow those things you don't need anymore to fall off of you. Quit holding onto the pieces that don't fit you anymore. Let them fall off. Let them go.

Me: Once I start doing that, what will be left of me?

God: Only the very best pieces of you.

Me: I'm scared of changing.

God: I keep telling you - YOU AREN'T CHANGING!! YOU ARE BECOMING!

Me: Becoming who?

God: Becoming who I created you to be! A person of light and love and charity and hope and courage and joy and mercy and grace and compassion. I made you for more than the shallow pieces you have decided to adorn yourself with that you cling to with such greed and fear. Let those things fall off of you. I love you! Don't change! ... Become! Become! Become who I made you to be. I'm going to keep telling you this until you remember it.

Me: There goes another piece.

God: Yep. Let it be.

Me: So ... I'm not broken?

God: Of course Not! - but you are breaking like the dawn. It's a new day. Become!!!

~Author Unknown

         When we eventually get to the place of understanding our own brokenness as our new “becoming”, we can lean into God’s great love for us and conquer the world.

Prayer of Dedication

Pour Your Spirit upon these gifts, O God.  Send them into the world as a sign and song of Your joyous work of love.  Use them to call and welcome into Your house of love all who are Your friends and our brothers and sisters.  AMEN.

Closing Hymn – Immortal, Invisible God only Wise

Benediction

Jesus speaks today, “This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.”  God in joy and faithfulness, knowing that you, the chosen friends of Christ, abide in Jesus’ love and bear the gift of this love to the world.  AMEN.

PostludeJeremiah Clarke’s Trumpet Voluntary

 

Sunday, May 2, 2021

Today's Worship Service and Sermon-ette - Sunday, May 2, 2021

 

Worship for the Lord’s Day

May 2, 2021

A Note before we begin this day’s worship:

          Unfortunately, I had to leave town for a family emergency, but we will have coverage for our regular worship services at (Olivet Presbyterian Church, West Elizabeth – 9:45am and Bethesda United Presbyterian Church, Elizabeth – 11:15am) by Rev. Bob Ruefle with our previous safety precautions in place. 

As always, you can click on the highlighted portions below which will open a YouTube clip of the songs, but there is no video of my short sermon”ette”, this morning.

 

Let’s begin:

 

Prelude  Clint Mansell’s Lux Aeterna from Requiem for a Dream.

This is one of my favorite pieces.  It is hauntingly beautiful and often fills my head when I’m in a melancholy mood.

 

Call to Worship

L:      Our praise rings out before the great congregation.

P:      May all the people eat and be satisfied.  May our hearts live

forever.

L:      May all who live, even at the ends of the earth, remember and turn to the Lord.

P:      May all the families of the nations bow down in worship.

L:      God rules over the nations and we shall live unto God’s great name.

P:      The future generations shall be told about the Lord.

L:      We will proclaim God’s deliverance, saying aloud what God has          done.

P:      Let us worship God.

         

Hymn  Holy, Holy, Holy, Lord God Almighty

 

Prayer of Confession

          God of life and death, we confess that sometimes we are not alive to the possibilities You offer.  In the midst of pain, unfairness, and fear, we find little reason for hope.  We feel despair or blame others, but we do not turn to You for help.  Forgive us.  Show us how to share the new life You offer, through Jesus Christ.  AMEN.

 

Words of Assurance

L:      Jesus said, “These things I have spoken to you, that My joy may be in         you, and that your joy may be full.”  Your sins are forgiven, and your future made new.

P:      Thanks be to God,  AMEN!

 

Affirmation of Faith – Apostles’ Creed

I believe in God the Father Almighty, maker of heaven and earth; and in Jesus Christ His only Son our Lord, who was conceived by the Holy Ghost; born of the virgin Mary; suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, dead, and buried; He descended into hell; the third day He rose again from the dead: He ascended into heaven and sitteth on the right hand of God the Father Almighty.  From thence He shall come to judge the quick and the dead.  I believe in the Holy Ghost; the holy catholic church; the communion of saints; the forgiveness of sins; the resurrection of the body; and the life everlasting.  AMEN

 

Pastoral Prayer

           Our souls are weary, O God.  We hear too easily the loud clamor of the world.  We witness the terror and trauma all around us.  We long for the "good old days" when life seemed so much safer and simpler; when we felt cherished and protected.  In this spirit, we have come to this time of worship, seeking Your peace and hope.  The Psalmist wrote of green pastures and refreshing springs of water, places of rest.  Offerings of quietness and comfort flood our thirsting souls.  What we would give for such places in the heart!  In the midst of all that is difficult, there is one who leads us to these places where, when we have gathered strength and healing, we are prepared to go forth in confidence to serve again.  Jesus, the Good Shepherd, knows our name and our needs.  He listens for our cries and responds in love.  We can have great assurance in that.  We have offered today the names and situations of illness, mourning, stress, and concern which touch our lives and our souls.  We have breathed our heart’s desire for their healing and restoration.  God’s abundant love shall flood over them until they are more than filled.  God will be with all these dear ones in their situations and needs.  And God will be with us, strengthening us, restoring us, healing us, challenging us, to witness to the Good News of Salvation in the name of Jesus Christ.  Open our hearts this day, O Lord, and enter into our lives.

This day, we offer up in prayer…

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name.  Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.  Give us this day our daily bread.  Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.  And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.  For Thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever.  AMEN.

 

Scripture Readings

 

Old Testament: Psalm 22:25-31

25From you comes my praise in the great congregation; my vows I will pay before those who fear him.

26The poor shall eat and be satisfied; those who seek him shall praise the Lord. May your hearts live forever!

27All the ends of the earth shall remember and turn to the Lord; and all the families of the nations shall worship before him.

28For dominion belongs to the Lord, and he rules over the nations.

29To him, indeed, shall all who sleep in the earth bow down; before him shall bow all who go down to the dust, and I shall live for him.

30Posterity will serve him; future generations will be told about the Lord,

31and proclaim his deliverance to a people yet unborn, saying that he has done it.

 

New Testament: 1 John 4:7-21

7Beloved, let us love one another, because love is from God; everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. 8Whoever does not love does not know God, for God is love. 9God’s love was revealed among us in this way: God sent his only Son into the world so that we might live through him. 10In this is love, not that we loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the atoning sacrifice for our sins. 11Beloved, since God loved us so much, we also ought to love one another. 12No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God lives in us, and his love is perfected in us. 13By this we know that we abide in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit.

14And we have seen and do testify that the Father has sent his Son as the Savior of the world. 15God abides in those who confess that Jesus is the Son of God, and they abide in God. 16So we have known and believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and those who abide in love abide in God, and God abides in them.

17Love has been perfected among us in this: that we may have boldness on the day of judgment, because as he is, so are we in this world. 18There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear; for fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not reached perfection in love. 19We love because he first loved us. 20Those who say, “I love God,” and hate their brothers or sisters, are liars; for those who do not love a brother or sister whom they have seen, cannot love God whom they have not seen. 21The commandment we have from him is this: those who love God must love their brothers and sisters also.

Sermon – Love One Another

This past month has been a difficult one for my family and I’ve had to be away for much of the month, spending a good portion of the time in hospitals, doctor offices, and the cancer center.  During that time I’ve had to set aside other priorities to focus on my sister’s health.  As I set aside my own agendas for the day, I’ve had concentrated opportunities to focus on others – to really “see” others.  The world is not a perfect place and we are not perfect people, BUT there are many who go above and beyond to be kind.  As we go about our daily routines sometimes we miss it.

Today’s scripture passage is an extended message from John’s earlier chapter that we read last week.  He emphasizes, once again, the real focus of the gospel which is to LOVE ONE ANOTHER because love comes directly, uniquely, and abundantly from God.

I was heartened all month by the kindness of strangers and friends alike; the simple gesture of a held door, a kind word, the offer of food, the doing of tasks, the flowers that came, the cards that held meaning, the prayers being said, and the ever present “checking in” to see how we were all doing.

Here are some examples of kindness that came our way this month:

I had picked up my mother from the airport to come see my sister in ICU and we needed to stop to use the bathroom on our way to the hospital.  We stopped at a gas station and the clerk behind the counter couldn’t have been kinder, simply offering words of comfort and care on our way.

Three weeks ago when we first got word that my sister’s cancer had returned, an upstairs neighbor came with mounds of food, with the promise of more, so that we could concentrate on Joy’s care and not worry about having to cook.

Another neighbor helped get my sister down and back up the stairs when she was too weak to walk.

The gentleman in the hospital that brought my sister’s food came each day with a smile and a song as he delivered the meals.

The young man at a nearby store who offered to bring out a chair from the back office for my mom to sit in when I had accidently locked my keys in the car (UGH!) while we waited for AAA to come.

The host at an AirBnB who I contacted to see if the location was close enough and large enough for two of us to stay in who then said a prayer with me when he found out why I was in town.  Unfortunately, his space and location was not ideal and I chose another, but he contacted me later in the week (me, a total stranger) to see how we were doing.

Friends who texted me asking how Joy and the rest of us were doing, offering their own prayers of comfort, strength, and peace.

All of these created moments that brightened the day.  We NEED those moments, not just in times of crisis but all the time, throughout the day, the weeks, the months and years.  And we also need to be the ones that offer them.  To be honest, I’m not always positive and happy.  I’m not always kind.  I’m not immune from offering a snarky remark or a harsh criticism.  Thankfully, I mostly do it to those I love because I know they will understand and forgive me.  But I also realized in this past month that I need to work at being kinder, more genuine, more loving and to care for my fellow journeyers.  We are all dealing with something and this world is harsh enough.

Let us love one another!  AMEN

 

Hymn Seek Ye First

 

Benediction

Nourished by the Shepherd’s abundant love, go forth to walk in the paths of righteousness.  Love one another in truth and action.  May God’s abundant blessings abide in you forever.   AMEN.

 

Postlude – Presto from Vivaldi’s Storm

 

 

 

Sunday, April 25, 2021

Today's Worship Service and Sermon - Sunday, April 25, 2021

 

Worship for the Lord’s Day

April 25, 2021

A Note before we begin this day’s worship:

          Unfortunately, I had to leave town for a family emergency, so we are back on-line for this Sunday and there is no YouTube clip for the sermon, but there will be in person coverage for May 2 and May 9 at our regular worship times at (Olivet Presbyterian Church, West Elizabeth – 9:45am and Bethesda United Presbyterian Church, Elizabeth – 11:15am) with our previous safety precautions in place.  I will post a worship service on-line for those Sundays (May 2, 9), as well.

As always, you can click on the highlighted portions below which will open a YouTube clip of the songs and the sermon.

 

Let’s begin:

 

Prelude All Creatures of Our God and King, on the organ

 

Call to Worship

L:      Praise the Lord who spoke the word which created the grandeur of     the heavens.

P:      For the brilliant moon and countless stars, sun and rain and blue          sky we praise the Lord!

L:      Praise the Lord who spoke the word which created the fragile beauty of the earth and seas.

P:      For changing seasons; the contours of the land and sea; for        heat and cold, wind and calm, we praise the Lord!

L:      Praise the Lord who spoke the word which created trees and plants,   animals and birds, and people of all races and cultures.

P:      For the environment which sustains boys and girls, women and men; poor and rich, young and old, we praise the Lord!

L:      Praise the Lord, the Word who became flesh and who lived among us          full of grace and truth.

P:      We have seen His glory and from His fullness we have all    received grace upon grace – praise the Lord, Hallelujah!

         

Hymn  All Hail the Power of Jesus’ Name

 

Prayer of Confession

          Gracious  and loving God, as we reflect on the wonder and glory of Your being, and the depth of Your love for us, we are conscious of our failure to learn from You and from the sacrificial love of Jesus.  So often our understanding of glory is linked with prestige and power and position.  Jesus’ understanding of glory was linked to a love that was prepared to go to the uttermost limits of love.  Forgive us when selfish pursuit of glory takes precedence over Jesus’ command to love one another as He loved us.  Fill our hearts with Jesus’ selfless love so that, like Him, we glorify You in all we do and say.  This we pray in Jesus’ name.  AMEN.

 

Words of Assurance

L:      God makes all things new.  Anyone who is in Christ is a new creation!          The old has passed away; everything has become new!  Friends,     believe the gospel; in Jesus Christ we are loved, we are blessed, we          are forgiven.      

P:      Thanks be to God for God’s abounding grace!

 

Affirmation of Faith – Apostles’ Creed

I believe in God the Father Almighty, maker of heaven and earth; and in Jesus Christ His only Son our Lord, who was conceived by the Holy Ghost; born of the virgin Mary; suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, dead, and buried; He descended into hell; the third day He rose again from the dead: He ascended into heaven and sitteth on the right hand of God the Father Almighty.  From thence He shall come to judge the quick and the dead.  I believe in the Holy Ghost; the holy catholic church; the communion of saints; the forgiveness of sins; the resurrection of the body; and the life everlasting.  AMEN

 

Pastoral Prayer

           Our souls are weary, O God.  We hear too easily the loud clamor of the world.  We witness the terror and trauma all around us.  We long for the "good old days" when life seemed so much safer and simpler; when we felt cherished and protected.  In this spirit, we have come to this time of worship, seeking Your peace and hope.  The Psalmist wrote of green pastures and refreshing springs of water, places of rest.  Offerings of quietness and comfort flood our thirsting souls.  What we would give for such places in the heart!  In the midst of all that is difficult, there is one who leads us to these places where, when we have gathered strength and healing, we are prepared to go forth in confidence to serve again.  Jesus, the Good Shepherd, knows our name and our needs.  He listens for our cries and responds in love.  We can have great assurance in that.  We have offered today the names and situations of illness, mourning, stress, and concern which touch our lives and our souls.  We have breathed our heart’s desire for their healing and restoration.  God’s abundant love shall flood over them until they are more than filled.  God will be with all these dear ones in their situations and needs.  And God will be with us, strengthening us, restoring us, healing us, challenging us, to witness to the Good News of Salvation in the name of Jesus Christ.  Open our hearts this day, O Lord, and enter into our lives.

This day, we offer up in prayer…

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name.  Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.  Give us this day our daily bread.  Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.  And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.  For Thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever.  AMEN.

 

Scripture Readings

 

Old Testament: Exodus 32:9-10a, Psalm 23

 

9The Lord said to Moses, “I have seen this people, how stiff-necked they are.  10Now let me alone, so that my wrath may burn hot against them and I may consume them…”

 

1The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.  2He makes me lie down in green pastures; he leads me beside still waters; 3he restores my soul. He leads me in right paths for his name’s sake.

4Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I fear no evil; for you are with me; your rod and your staff— they comfort me.

5You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.

6Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord my whole life long.

 

New Testament: 1 John 3:16-24

16We know love by this, that he laid down his life for us—and we ought to lay down our lives for one another.  17How does God’s love abide in anyone who has the world’s goods and sees a brother or sister in need and yet refuses help?  18Little children, let us love, not in word or speech, but in truth and action.  19And by this we will know that we are from the truth and will reassure our hearts before him 20whenever our hearts condemn us; for God is greater than our hearts, and he knows everything.  21Beloved, if our hearts do not condemn us, we have boldness before God; 22and we receive from him whatever we ask, because we obey his commandments and do what pleases him.  23And this is his commandment, that we should believe in the name of his Son Jesus Christ and love one another, just as he has commanded us.  24All who obey his commandments abide in him, and he abides in them.  And by this we know that he abides in us, by the Spirit that he has given us.

 

Sermon – Let Us Love

Let Us Love

(based on Exodus 32:9, Psalm 23, and 1 John 3:16-24)

 

          Today’s sermon message could have been written from the vantage point of any numerous Bible passages.  But today’s passages from Exodus, the Psalms and 1 John give us an interesting juxtaposition.  These various passages seem to pit a loving and shepherding God against a more wrathful God.  The Bible is filled with these select passages and stories about God and about how we should strive to be like God, such as “Be holy, because I AM holy.” I Peter 1:16.

          Which one is the God we worship?  The wrathful God that wants to destroy us because of our disobedience or the loving God that embraces us as lost sheep?  Which one is the one we share with others?  Do we believe in a dual purpose, bi-polar God?  A God that is loving one moment and wrathful the next? 

To be perfectly honest, I’m not sure we’ve figured that out yet.  We, Christians, have an awful track record when you look over the long span of Christian history and activity in the world.  We haven’t always lived up to the standards of loving one another.  And when we do love one another, we can be awfully selective about who that love is extended to.  There was a “friendly” phrase used quite often a decade or so ago which said, “Love the sinner, but hate the sin.”  I put the word friendly in quotes because it often still translated into a less than loving relationship, regardless of the sentiment.

Of course, we aren’t perfect people and we shouldn’t pretend that we are.  We all struggle with the same sins that everyone else struggles with.  Although this list doesn’t exist as a whole in the Bible, the 7 Deadly Sins or Cardinal Sins as they are known were widely adopted by the Christian Church from the time of the 4th Century.  They include pride, greed, wrath, envy, lust, gluttony, and sloth.  The early church used these fundamental teachings about sin as a way to help curb our evil inclinations before they festered into bad practices and actions against others. 

But, we all struggle with the same inner battles, the same heartaches, the same demons.  Maybe a good number of us have learned over many, many years of struggle how to cope with them better, how to ignore the voices that lead us down an instant gratification and easier road.  But we are no better than those who are still struggling and still perhaps losing in those struggles.  But the Church (with a capital C - meaning the whole, not the smaller individual parts) over its long history, has not always been kind. 

To counterbalance the 7 Deadly Sins, the church also came up with 7 Heavenly Virtues.  They are chastity, temperance, generosity, diligence, patience, gratitude and humility.  If, perhaps we wanted to put some of this into a contemporary sentiment, it might just be this; “Be Kind.”

Why would I begin my sermon by saying these harsh things?  Because, it’s been on my mind a lot lately.  Especially when I wonder what future we as a Church (again with the capital C) have and why there are so many empty pews?  All the current polls have said that there are fewer “believers” now than those who don’t believe in any particular religion, including Christianity. 

The response to a question I posed a while ago might indicate some of the reasons.  As we wrestle with returning to some kind of life after this pandemic year and find a re-set button, how are we going to respond to the growing non-church members and non believers in our culture today.   I believe that I have spent most of my opportunities in the pulpit to show how God transforms our own lives.  As most denominations continue to shrink and the biggest news is that even evangelical, conservative churches have also lost members by huge percentages each year; my personal, faith-shaking question is this; what’s the point in continuing this “church” stuff?  I asked this question several years ago before the pandemic and I ask it with an even more serious request for answers.  I’m not about to leave my faith, or my job/position, nor am I at some mid-life crisis where I am questioning my choices and my continued energy for sharing God’s awesome Good News.  But I’m just wondering what others think of the future of the church and it’s ability to REALLY lead in helping one another transform their lives.  Be the kind of people that we were meant to be. 

I got lots of answers to this question that came from a huge variety of people I know and respect – believers, agnostics, people who claim to be truth seekers, others who claim no religion, but still believe in the goodness of others, and even some who would claim that they are atheists.

One of my oldest and dearest friends who used to belong to a church but no longer does summed up nearly all of the responses I received;

“I think it’s really quite simple, Walt.  If any church could just get back to the very basics of teaching, modeling, loving the way Jesus did, many people would be drawn to these churches.  As it stands many of them judge, condemn, persecute, alienate, and yes even hate people.  It is what has turned me off of religion.  Because I choose to believe that God loves me, and I actually feel it, I have the ability to love others.  It’s that simple.  Churches have made that simple message so complicated laced with hate and judgments.”

We wonder why our pews are empty, it’s because we have forgotten God’s most important message to us.  We have forgotten how to love.  “For God so loved the world that He sent his one and only son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but have everlasting life.  Indeed, God did not send the Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.”  John 3:16, 17

          Our emphasis has been on God’s wrath and not on God’s love.  Yes, there very well might be a bi-polar God who is both wrathful and loving.  But the overwhelming message in scripture is on the incredible love God has for the creation and that this love is to be shared with one another.

I started going to Sunday School when I was still in diapers.  My parent’s brought my sister and I up in the church.  We learned all the Bible stories that we teach children.  Here are a few of them:

          Abraham was faithful, and God made him the father of a nation…and the lesson I learned was…so be faithful like Abraham.

          Joseph was a good little boy (unlike his “bad” brothers), and God made him Prime Minister over all Egypt…and the lesson I learned was…so be good like Joseph.

          David had a pure heart (unlike his brothers), and God made him King of Israel…and the lesson I learned was…so have a pure heart like David.

          Esther was an obedient girl.  God made her Queen of Persia and saved God’s people…and the lesson I learned was…so be obedient like Esther.

          And finally, somewhere in the midst of all those stories, I also heard that if we fail to be faithful, good, obedient or have a pure heart, Jesus will forgive us…sort of a P.S. tacked on at the end of the story.

          At 7 years old I already knew that I wasn’t faithful, or good or obedient or had a pure heart.  At 7 years old I already knew that there was evil in me, that sometimes I was bad, that I sometimes acted more like Joseph’s brothers when I was mean to my sister, or like David’s brothers who were skipped over in favor of the more athletic David, or like Mordecai in the story of Esther who plotted to make himself look better by putting someone else down.  I wasn’t like any of those Bible “Hero” characters, I was a lot more like the villains.

          At 7 years old I wrestled with God and how he could possibly love me when I was like none of those nice characters in the Bible story.

 

What’s so bad about these Sunday school lessons?

Nothing really.  Except that they don’t tell the full story about God, they often leave out some of the more interesting and intriguing characters of our faith,  and they tend to emphasize the wrong things about the gospel of good news, forgiveness and God’s amazing love.  Apart from that, they are pretty good.  But there’s more to the story than just these.  The message of the gospel – the entire storyline of scripture – is God’s loving pursuit of people who run from him as fast as they can and who live lives unworthy of his love.  That’s why it’s called grace.

But our old Sunday School lessons used to teach us to be good little boys and girls, and God will love and use us.  It’s the total opposite of the gospel, though.  The wonder of the gospel is not the love of the beautiful; it’s when Beauty kisses the Beast.

The Beast isn’t loved because he has changed; the Beast is changed when he is loved.  Joy doesn’t come when he’s loved for his beauty; joy overwhelms him when he is loved in his hideousness.

If the Beast were loved for his beauty, it would be an unbearable burden.  Any day he might be scarred, and soon he will certainly be a wrinkled old man.

Let’s teach the wonder of the gospel…a lesson I never learned until much later in life…and because of it…I often still struggle with God about how wretched I am.  But let’s show today’s/yesterday’s/and tomorrow’s generations that God loves them…simply because he loves them and us.  In our beastliness.  That he loves us before we are good. 

That the storyline of the Bible is God’s Search and Rescue mission to find the dying Beast and kiss him into joyous life.

How Abraham was an idol worshipper and God loved him and pursued him;

How Joseph was a narcissistic young teenager and God loved him and pursued him;

How David was a murdering adulterer and God loved him and pursued him;

How Esther had sex outside of marriage with a non-believer and God loved her and pursued her.

 

Our heroes weren’t loved because they were good; they became good because they were loved.

 

A wise colleague of mine posted this on his Facebook page.

 

          Most religions are practiced or doctrinal religions.  In other words, they are based on performing the right practices or having right beliefs.  Christianity, at its core, is a religion of relationships – with God, with others, with ourselves.  If our practices and beliefs don’t lead to loving relationships, then they become ends in and of themselves.

          In most other religions it’s the quality of the particular practices that matter, whether that be strict observance of the law, proscribed prayer at certain times of the day and year, sacrifices, meditative practices, or the like.  Most cults, meanwhile, focus on the sanctity of belief.  It’s the purity of our belief that “saves” us.

          Christianity is a relational religion.  We have core practices and beliefs, but their worth is only in their ability to lead us to grow in love.  Whenever we advocate a certain kind of prayer discipline, a distinct type of mission, or a particular biblical stance, we lost sight of their intent, if our prayer, mission, or Bible study doesn’t lead us to greater love of God and everyone, then it is false and should be done away with.  That’s why what practices we take part in, or beliefs we hold, don’t matter as much as the love they lead us to.  When they become ends in themselves, we become judgmental, hypocritical, and insular.  Think of the worst of Christianity, and you will find Christians who have forgotten that their practices and beliefs must lead to love, and instead are worshiping their practices and beliefs.  Let us Christians, once again, be known for our amazing love for one another as we had been in the First Century after Christ had died and the church was just beginning to find its true message for a world full of evil, hatred, and anger.    

          If you have been a member of a church (and more specifically this church) for decades upon decades, and it’s the church of your ancestors, here is my comment to you.

          You are loved immensely by God.  Whether you struggled with that as a child, as a teenager, or as an adult, it doesn’t matter anymore.  I want you to know that you are loved by God and by me.  Your strength in the faith and in loyalty to this church is what called me here.  It’s time for us to really start living into it.  I want you to take that love of God, that strength in the faith and that loyalty to the church to a new level of love for others, I want you to share your strength in the faith with others, and I want you to lean on that loyalty to the church as we re-vision our future.

          If you are relatively new to the church, or questioning whether to become part of a church or just seeking answers, here is my comment to you.

          You are loved immensely by God.  Whether you struggled with that as a child, as a teenager, or as an adult, it doesn’t matter anymore.  I want you to know that you are loved by God, by me, and by members of this particular church, at least.  Your questioning, your doubts, your journey is what will keep us vibrant and relevant.  And I want you to know that we, as long as I am pastor of this church, embrace your heart, your spirit and your soul, just as God embraces you!

 

Rob Bell is one of my current pastoral and theological heros.  He is a contemporary evangelical who has been named as the father of the new emerging American Christianity.  He has been slapped with the title of a heretic by most of today’s conservative Evangelicals and Fundamentalists because of his boundless love for others and his acceptance of others, just like a First Century Christian.  So be it!  I love what he writes, I echo a huge percentage of his story and his thoughts.  And if I were as smart as he is, I might have written some of the same things, but I’m not, so I will close with his words.

 

Jesus came to give us life, a living, breathing throbbing,

pulsating blow your hair back tingle your spine roll the

windows down and drive fast experience of God right

here, right now.

word taking on flesh and blood.

And when you find yourselves tied up in knots, having

long discussions about who believes what, a bit like

dogs doing that sniff circle when they meet on the sidewalk,

do this:

take out a cup

and some bread

and put it in the middle of the table,

and say a prayer and examine yourselves

and then make sure everybody’s rent is paid and there’s

food in their fridge and clothes on their backs

and then invite everybody to say

‘yes’ to the resurrected Christ with whatever ‘yes’ they

can muster in the moment and then you take that bread

and you dip it in that cup in the ancient/future hope and

trust that there is a new creation bursting forth right here

right now and

then together taste that new life and liberation and

forgiveness and as you look those people in the eyes gathered

around that table from all walks of life and you see the new

humanity, sinners saved by grace, beggars who have

found bread showing the other beggars where they found it

remind yourselves that

this

is

what

you

believe.

 

In the end, the only true test of a faith begins and ends in an incarnation – love made real through actions.  All else is straw.

 

Friends,  Let us love one another, as God has loved us.

AMEN.

 

Hymn  Fairest Lord Jesus

 

Benediction

Nourished by the Shepherd’s abundant love, go forth to walk in the paths of righteousness.  Love one another in truth and action.  May God’s abundant blessings abide in you forever.   AMEN.

 

Postlude  How Great Thou Art, on the organ