Wednesday, November 18, 2020

Today's Midweek Meditation - Wednesday, November 18, 2020

 Today's Midweek Meditation 
November 18, 2020
Read John 15:1-9

”I am the true vine, and my Father is the vinegrower. 2He removes every branch in me that bears no fruit. Every branch that bears fruit he prunes to make it bear more fruit. 3You have already been cleansed by the word that I have spoken to you. 4Abide in me as I abide in you. Just as the branch cannot bear fruit by itself unless it abides in the vine, neither can you unless you abide in me. 5I am the vine, you are the branches. Those who abide in me and I in them bear much fruit, because apart from me you can do nothing. 6Whoever does not abide in me is thrown away like a branch and withers; such branches are gathered, thrown into the fire, and burned. 7If you abide in me, and my words abide in you, ask for whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. 8My Father is glorified by this, that you bear much fruit and become my disciples.

9As the Father has loved me, so I have loved you; abide in my love.

    Richard Rohr talks about how Jesus describes the Kingdom of Heaven as a place within us and a kingdom that is already "at hand".  It is not a place we go to, but rather a place we come from.  It's not something that will happen later, but in Richard Rohr's words, "but lighter - some more subtle quality or dimension of experience accessible to you right in the moment.  You don't die into it; you awaken into it..."
    He says that "the Kingdom of Heaven is really a metaphor for a state of consciousness.  It is a whole new way of looking at the world, a transformed awareness that literally turns this world into a different place...the hallmark of this awareness is that it sees no separation - not between God and humans, not between humans and other humans."
    And this is the message from John.  We are all One with God and with one another.  There is no separation between us; which is both equally powerful and challenging.  
    During these difficult times how can we see ourselves in one another?  How can we see God in ourselves and in others?

Holy God, we give you thanks for your message of the Kingdom of God, here and now.  Thank you for loving us.  We pray that your love is made real and manifest in our own lives as we connect (and perhaps reconnect) with others.  Help us become a whole community that shares one another's burdens and rejoices with one another's victories.
AMEN.

Sunday, November 15, 2020

Today's Worship Service and Sermon - Sunday, November 15, 2020

 

Worship for the Lord’s Day

November 15, 2020

Announcements:

·        West Elizabeth Food Bank at Olivet will distribute food on Tuesday, November 17 if you would like to help. 

·        The sessions of both churches will meet via Zoom on Tuesday evening at 7pm

 

Let’s begin:

 

Prelude

 

Call to Worship

 How shall we enter the house of the Lord?  With songs of great praise and rejoicing!  How shall we prepare ourselves to receive the blessings?  With hearts, minds, and spirits that are open.  Come, let us worship the Lord and bow down.  Let us offer our praise to God who has redeemed us.  AMEN.

 

Hymn Lead On, O King Eternal  (all 3 verses)

 

Prayer of Confession

Lord of mercy and justice, You have given us so many talents and gifts to be used in Your world.  You have given us these gifts because You trust us to use them well — and You will be with us in all our work.  But we disappoint You when we diminish the value of the talents or become so fearful of failure that we don’t believe that we are capable of helping in this world.  Lord, forgive us.  Help us trust in the gifts You have given to us and trust in Your guidance in using them.  Forgive us when we are fearful, stubborn, apathetic, indifferent to the needs around us.  Give us hearts for serving you all our days.  In Jesus’ name we pray (Silent prayers are offered) AMEN.

 

Words of Assurance

Rejoice and celebrate!  God has placed God’s own trust and love deep within your hearts.  You have been called and trusted to serve God.  Alleluia!  AMEN.

 

Affirmation of Faith – The Apostles’ Creed

I believe in God the Father Almighty, Maker of heaven and earth; and in Jesus Christ His only Son our Lord, Who was conceived by the Holy Ghost; born of the Virgin Mary; suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, dead, and buried; He descended into hell; the third day He rose again from the dead; He ascended into heaven and sitteth on the right hand of God the Father Almighty; from thence He shall come to judge the quick and the dead.  I believe in the Holy Ghost; the holy catholic church; the communion of saints; the forgiveness of sins; the resurrection of the body; and the life everlasting.  Amen.

 

Pastoral Prayer:

Wise and Patient God, we know what You want us to do, but we are far too often hesitant to follow through for You.  You give us multiple blessings and ask that we develop these gifts and use them to help others.  In times of great crisis we come through, we mobilize.  But in the intermediate times, we hold back.  We develop a "let someone else do it" attitude.  We often think of our gifts, our talents as things that are less than worthy.  In this country in which competition is the ruling code, we don’t want to compete with others, because we feel we just don’t have the right "stuff".  How blind we are, Lord!  To each one of us You have given gifts which can be used to help others.  Each gift and talent is precious in Your sight.  Rather than compete with others to see who has the greater talent, let us use the gifts we have been given joyfully.

 One of the greatest gifts is the gift of prayer.  And we have brought before You, Lord, the concerns which have been weighing on our hearts.  Touch the lives of all these people and situations with Your healing love.  Give each one a sense of Your powerful presence.  Flood their lives with hope and peace.  We pray specifically for…

Help each one of us to be workers for You.  Help us trust in Your abiding presence and love for us.  Challenge us to use those gifts and to honor the giver.  We pray now for all those whose cares and worries burden our hearts in a moment of silence.

In Christ we are one and in His name, we pray…

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name.  Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.  Give us this day our daily bread.  Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.  And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.  For Thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever.  AMEN.

 

Hymn  O Master, Let Me Walk With Thee (first and last verses)

 

Scripture Readings

 

Old Testament: Psalm 90

1Lord, you have been our dwelling place in all generations.

2Before the mountains were brought forth, or ever you had formed the earth and the world, from everlasting to everlasting you are God.

3You turn us back to dust, and say, “Turn back, you mortals.”

4For a thousand years in your sight are like yesterday when it is past, or like a watch in the night.

5You sweep them away; they are like a dream, like grass that is renewed in the morning;

6in the morning it flourishes and is renewed; in the evening it fades and withers.

7For we are consumed by your anger; by your wrath we are overwhelmed.

8You have set our iniquities before you, our secret sins in the light of your countenance.

9For all our days pass away under your wrath; our years come to an end like a sigh.

10The days of our life are seventy years, or perhaps eighty, if we are strong; even then their span is only toil and trouble; they are soon gone, and we fly away.

11Who considers the power of your anger? Your wrath is as great as the fear that is due you.

12So teach us to count our days that we may gain a wise heart.

13Turn, O Lord! How long? Have compassion on your servants!

14Satisfy us in the morning with your steadfast love, so that we may rejoice and be glad all our days.

15Make us glad as many days as you have afflicted us, and as many years as we have seen evil.

16Let your work be manifest to your servants, and your glorious power to their children.

17Let the favor of the Lord our God be upon us, and prosper for us the work of our hands— O prosper the work of our hands!

 

New Testament: Matthew 25:14-30

14“For it is as if a man, going on a journey, summoned his slaves and entrusted his property to them; 15to one he gave five talents, to another two, to another one, to each according to his ability. Then he went away. 16The one who had received the five talents went off at once and traded with them, and made five more talents. 17In the same way, the one who had the two talents made two more talents. 18But the one who had received the one talent went off and dug a hole in the ground and hid his master’s money. 19After a long time the master of those slaves came and settled accounts with them. 20Then the one who had received the five talents came forward, bringing five more talents, saying, ‘Master, you handed over to me five talents; see, I have made five more talents.’ 21His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and trustworthy slave; you have been trustworthy in a few things, I will put you in charge of many things; enter into the joy of your master.’ 22And the one with the two talents also came forward, saying, ‘Master, you handed over to me two talents; see, I have made two more talents.’ 23His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and trustworthy slave; you have been trustworthy in a few things, I will put you in charge of many things; enter into the joy of your master.’ 24Then the one who had received the one talent also came forward, saying, ‘Master, I knew that you were a harsh man, reaping where you did not sow, and gathering where you did not scatter seed; 25so I was afraid, and I went and hid your talent in the ground. Here you have what is yours.’ 26But his master replied, ‘You wicked and lazy slave! You knew, did you, that I reap where I did not sow, and gather where I did not scatter? 27Then you ought to have invested my money with the bankers, and on my return I would have received what was my own with interest. 28So take the talent from him, and give it to the one with the ten talents. 29For to all those who have, more will be given, and they will have an abundance; but from those who have nothing, even what they have will be taken away. 30As for this worthless slave, throw him into the outer darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’

 

Sermon –  Just like the hymns, you can click on the sermon title to hear/watch a video of today’s sermon via YouTube. 

 

Time, Talent, and Treasure

(based on Matthew 25:14-30)

 

          The parable we read this morning is called “The Parable of the Talents,” and a talent was a denomination of ancient money.  So it would appear that this is a story about money and its usage.  Which Jesus spoke about more than any other subject matter.  In this parable the master gave sums of money to three of his servants and the text tells us that the money was “entrusted” to them, which means that the master expected to have it back.  It wasn’t a gift, nor was it even loan, for there is no reason to believe that the servants were in need; the money was given to the servants to be held until the master’s return.  Although Jesus doesn’t come right out and say it in the story, the passage suggests that there was an expectation as to the management of this money, for it says that he gave the sums to each “according to their ability”.

          Jesus again suggests in the story that these servants were not only given unequal amounts, but that their ability to manage the sums of money were also unequal.   One of the servants was given more because he had a better capacity to manage money.  One of the servants was given considerably less because he had less ability, but that didn’t mean he had no ability.  It was given exactly the right amount for his ability to manage.

          We know from the story what they did with the money and how their ability was put to work, and when the master returned to settle his accounts, we know that the first servant went off immediately and began trading with them.  He took his five talents and got five more in return.  The second servant did likewise and doubled his money as well.  The third servant, however, fearing his master and being a cautious soul, did not risk his talent, so he dug a hole and hid it afraid of losing it.  Upon being summoned by the master, this third servant was pleased and proud to be able to present to him exactly what he had been entrusted.  The master had given him something to keep and safeguard and now the master had it back.

          That’s the problem with this passage.  Of course most of us relate to this poor third servant who was just being cautious and returning to the master that which he had been entrusted.  It’s so unlike Jesus to suddenly turn on this servant, after all he didn’t lose any of it.  He didn’t go out and risk his one and only talent, his one and only dollar and squander it on some foolish investment.  Instead, he kept it safe.  He kept it hidden so it wasn’t lost.  Perhaps if we were to rewrite it the proper way with all that we know about Jesus and his normal response, we would write it something like this, “There, there, I understand your fear and your ambitions.  I know that you wanted to do what was right, but your fear of losing that which I gave you prevented you from taking the risk, stepping out in faith.  It could have been worse; you could have lost all of the money in some foolish investment.  As it is, you did the best you could; I appreciate your concern for protecting my money.  You can keep what you have.  You could have made more, but at least you haven’t lost out completely.”  This then would have been a story about the cautious servant and the forgiving master; a much more common and appropriate story of Jesus and how God acts with us.

          However, that’s not what the passage tells us.  That’s not the story that Jesus leaves us with.  Instead we’ve got a tale whose moral is more like those who have will get more and those who have less will go to hell where there is weeping and gnashing of teeth.  And somehow that doesn’t sit so well with me.  So there has to me more to it.

I read a story about an Old Swedish Lutheran pastor who preached on this text to his elderly congregation, one of whom was worried about the fate of people similar to this servant, who might find themselves in hell rather than being rewarded for faithful stewardship.  The biggest concern for this elderly member was not that they would be thrown into the firey blaze of hell, but rather that they were so elderly that they no longer had any teeth to gnash.  The pastor, not willing to undermine the poor man’s faith replied, “I’m sure teeth will be provided.” 

But that’s not the point, either.

This parable needs to be understood in its full breadth if we are to find the real message Jesus was trying to tell us.  It isn’t a parable about forgiveness, so that’s why Jesus doesn’t end it the way we think it should be ended.  And actually, it’s not really even about money, even though money is the object of the story and this parable is often used as a stewardship sermon, which I am using as a prelude to our congregation al meeting and the announcement you heard this morning about our stewardship commitment to “Strive to Tithe”.

 Instead, I think it’s more about time.  The time in which we find ourselves now.  The time between the beginning and the end.  The parable is told by Jesus between the story of the ten bridesmaids and the story of the last judgment.  The ten bridesmaids is a story about not knowing when the end of the age is to come but to be watchful, because it will come like a thief in the night.  And the story of the last judgment puts a finality on all that Jesus has been trying to teach them.  So, I think this story places a premium not on how to use and spend money, but on how to use and spend time, especially for Jesus as there was not very much time left.  This parable is the second to last story that he tells the disciples.

I think Jesus wants to warn his disciples about how we are going to use what time we have left, what resources we’ve been given to become creative in gaining more, and how we are going to redeem the present.  This parable really has nothing to do with physical or monetary investments.  It has nothing to do with interest rates or the carefully selected stocks that we have chosen for our portfolios.  These days, who knows what they would be, anyway.  Instead, it has everything to do with what we are doing with what we have, where we are, right now – in this very moment.  When the master in the parable went away he didn’t tell his servants how long he would be gone or when he would return.  The test was to see how, living in that insecurity of not knowing, each would manage what they had been entrusted.  Which is exactly where we live everyday, anyway; isn’t it?  We never know what tomorrow will bring.

I remember sitting in the upstairs hallway of my parents’ house when I was probably no older than seven or eight years old.  Some people had come to the door to speak to my mom about religion and their particular brand of faith.  I wanted to hear what they had to say, but not being welcomed in the living room (as I was just a kid), I sat just out of sight upstairs listening.  One of the women regaled my mother with scripture verse after scripture verse.  I wasn’t yet that familiar with the Bible, but none of the passages sounded comforting.  They all had this tone about them, or perhaps it was just the way the woman related them, but I had this feeling of urgency, consequence and doom.  “We’re living in the end times,” she said over and over again.  “I tell you, it is the end.  You must get your affairs in order, make sure that you, your family and particularly your children are prepared before it’s too late.”

As my mother said Goodbye to the women who had sat in our living room sharing their gospel of fear, I went to my room and sat on my bed and cried.  I already knew that it was too late.  There wouldn’t be enough time left to get prepared – my father drank too much, my mother hated the neighbors down the street (I heard her say it), I had stolen my cousin’s plastic horse a couple of months ago and who knew what my sister had done.  What if God came that very night to pass down his judgment upon us?

My mother knocked on the door.  She saw my tears and sat down on the bed.  “I’m so sorry you heard all of that” she said over and over again.  “God isn’t like that.”

“But we’re going to go to hell, aren’t we?” I said.

My mom took me in her arms, hugged me and said, “No, sweetheart.  We’re not going to go to hell.  God wants us to try and be the best that we can be, but we’re not perfect.  I’m not perfect.  Your father isn’t perfect.  And you’re not perfect.  But God forgives us when we say our prayers and ask for forgiveness and then encourages us to try it all over again.”

I got up off the bed and went to my dresser drawer.  Tentatively, I opened it and reached into the far back of the drawer underneath a collection of rubber balls, underneath socks and underwear, and finally behind a small box that held odds and ends.  In the very back of the drawer on the bottom, in the deepest, darkest place I could find - was my cousin’s horse.  I took it out and got back on the bed.  Mom didn’t say a word, she just sat there.

“I took this from Dwayne.  I wanted it.  He doesn’t know that I have it.  He didn’t give it to me.”  I just couldn’t quite come out and say that I stole it.

“Well, we’ll give it back to him the next time we see him, okay.” my Mom said.

“But what if God comes tonight?” I wondered.

Mom hugged me again and said, “I rather doubt that God is going to come tonight, I can’t promise that he won’t because we don’t ever know, but I doubt it.  What I do know is that God has already forgiven you, because you wouldn’t have hidden it so well if you didn’t already feel guilty about taking it.  Just ask God to forgive you and we’ll take it back to Dwayne as soon as we get a chance.”

“But what if I do something bad again?  Sometimes I can’t help it.  I try.”

“What did I just tell you?  None of us are perfect.  All that God wants us to do is try.  Life is a risk.  You could sit here in your room – not speak to anyone, play with your toys nicely, eat all of your meals and go to bed.  Maybe, just maybe if you did that everyday you wouldn’t do something bad again.  But what kind of life is that?  You couldn’t have any friends, ‘cause sometimes we say things we don’t mean to other people.  So you wouldn’t want to risk that.  God knows that we aren’t going to be perfect and he doesn’t want us shut up in our rooms by ourselves.  God wants us to risk making mistakes.  God wants us to use whatever time he’s given us to live a full and complete life – mistakes and all.”

“The important thing I want you to remember is that we believe in a God of love and forgiveness.  Not a God of wrath and doom.  Some people never get over the consequences of their sins, they don’t know that God has already forgiven them and moved on.  They’re afraid of God.  Whether God comes for us today or a hundred years from now, you are one of God’s children, just like you are mine.  And although I might get mad at you and punish you for something that you did wrong, I don’t stay mad forever, do I?   God’s an even better parent than I am and he never stays mad at us.”

My mom taught me that day that we don’t believe in a vengeful, angry God but that we believe in a God who forgives and loves us.  Nearly fifty years have come and gone since that day and I still hear people saying that we are living in the end times.

If I had taken the advice of the women that came that day to my parents’ home, I may not have risked life in the same way.  I may have hidden my talent, for fear of a harsh master who reaps where he does not sow, carefully guarding my small corner of the world, keeping safe what God gave to me.  In the end I don’t know what I would be able to give back to God; my days and my time maybe, but not much of a life.

Instead, I took my mother’s advice and I have a lifetime already of blessings to hand back to God when the time comes.  What have you been doing with the time that God has given you?  How have you managed that time?  Rather than be so concerned about when the end will come and worrying about that, what are you doing with what God has given you, now?

AMEN.

 

 

Hymn  Come, Thou Almighty King (first and last verses)

 

Benediction

As you have been blessed, now go to be a blessing to others.  Go, bringing the news of peace and hope, of healing and love.  Go and the God of peace will always go with you.  AMEN.

 

Postlude

 

 

Wednesday, November 11, 2020

Today's Midweek Meditation - Wednesday, November 11, 2020

 Today's Midweek Meditation
Read 2 Corinthians 5:16-21
16From now on, therefore, we regard no one from a human point of view; even though we once knew Christ from a human point of view, we know him no longer in that way. 17So if anyone is in Christ, there is a new creation: everything old has passed away; see, everything has become new! 18All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ, and has given us the ministry of reconciliation; 19that is, in Christ God was reconciling the world to himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and entrusting the message of reconciliation to us. 20So we are ambassadors for Christ, since God is making his appeal through us; we entreat you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God. 21For our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.

I used the following story during my sermon last Sunday as an illustration for my point about serving God, but I think it deserves to be repeated in today's context from 2 Corinthians.

It's a story about Nelson Mandela’s life from the book Chicali Wall by Echeverría Martínez.

"After becoming President, I asked some of my bodyguard members to go for a walk in town.  After the walk, we went for lunch at a restaurant.  We sat in one of the most central ones, and each of us asked what we wanted.  After a bit of waiting, the waiter who brought our menus appeared, at that moment I realized that at the table that was right in front of ours there was a single man waiting to be served.

When he was served, I told one of my soldiers: go ask that man to join us.  The soldier went and transmitted my invitation.  The man stood up, took the plate and sat next to me.  While eating, his hands were constantly shaking and he didn't lift his head from the food. When we finished, he waved at me without even looking at me, I shook his hand and walked away!

Soldier said to me:

- Madiba, that man must be very sick as his hands wouldn't stop shaking while he was eating.

Not at all!  The reason for his tremor is another - I replied.  They looked at me weird and said to them:

- That man was the guardian of the jail I was locked up in.  Often, after the torture I was subjected to, I screamed and cried for water and he came to humiliate me, he laughed at me and instead of giving me water he urinated on my head.

He wasn't sick, he was scared and shook maybe fearing that I, now that I'm president of South Africa, would send him to jail and do the same thing he did with me, torturing and humiliating him.  But that's not me, that behavior is not part of my character nor my ethics.  Minds that seek revenge destroy states, while those that seek reconciliation build Nations.′′

And here is the line that I want you to focus on today, "Minds that seek revenge destroy states, while those that seek reconciliation build Nations."  We must be reconciled with one another and be in the business of reconciling with one another.  It is our joy and obligation as a Christian.

Saturday, November 7, 2020

Today's Worship Service and Sermon - Sunday, November 8, 2020

 

Worship for the Lord’s Day

November 8, 2020

Both congregations will have in-person corporate worship in their sanctuaries; Olivet Presbyterian Church in West Elizabeth worships at 9:45am, Bethesda United Presbyterian Church in Elizabeth worships at 11:15am.

West Elizabeth Food Bank at Olivet will receive their food delivery for the Food Bank on Friday, November 13 around 10am and the Middle School will be delivering their Food Drive items the same day around 1:30/1:45pm.  We could use help with unpacking and sorting through the donations given.

 

Let’s begin:

 

Prelude

 

Call to Worship

Your love has brought us together this day, O Lord, and it is Your love that sustains us through each day.  We pray that You would keep us faithful.  Even as we watch for signs of Your kingdom, strengthen us to work with You to bring about, here and now, Your reign on earth.  Give us the courage to witness to Your presence in the world, today, tomorrow, and into the future.  We pray in the name of the One who comes, Christ our Savior.  AMEN.

 

Hymn  O For a Thousand Tongues to Sing (first and last verses)

 

Prayer of Confession

God of Mystery, we want to stay awake and be ready for Your surprises, but we are tired and overcome with the usual routine.  We want to wait patiently for the fulfillment of Your kingdom, but we are frustrated by our need for immediate gratification.  We want to believe Your promises from ancient days, but we are overwhelmed with postmodern doubts.  Come to us again, O God.  Awaken us with Your unexpected grace.  Shock us with Your daring mercy.  Lift us up from lethargy and set our feet on Your path once more, through Jesus' name we pray.  (Silent prayers are offered) AMEN.

 

Words of Assurance

Encourage one another with these words: "We will be with the Lord forever."  God's promises are never forgotten.  Do not grieve as those who have no hope.  Our hope is in God, and not even death can overcome that hope.  Enter into God's mercy and love!  AMEN.

 

Affirmation of Faith – The Apostles’ Creed

I believe in God the Father Almighty, Maker of heaven and earth; and in Jesus Christ His only Son our Lord, Who was conceived by the Holy Ghost; born of the Virgin Mary; suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, dead, and buried; He descended into hell; the third day He rose again from the dead; He ascended into heaven and sitteth on the right hand of God the Father Almighty; from thence He shall come to judge the quick and the dead.  I believe in the Holy Ghost; the holy catholic church; the communion of saints; the forgiveness of sins; the resurrection of the body; and the life everlasting.  Amen.

 

Pastoral Prayer:

O Lord, we wait for You to come again into our midst.  Sometimes we wait patiently, sometimes not.  Always we are aware of how much the world needs You.  We pray today for those in our community who need Your healing and comfort. 

(Pause for silence.)

We pray for persons in leadership across our country, that together we might make wise decisions. 

(Pause for silence.)

We pray for brothers and sisters around the world, whose lives are torn apart by war. 

(Pause for silence.)

We pray for the saints who give witness to Your love through their words and actions. 

(Pause for silence.)

We pray, knowing that You are with us now, and that You will strengthen us to keep awake, to keep the faith, to keep working for the time when Christ will come again to surprise us anew with love and justice on earth.

Hear now the burdens of our heart.

(Pause for silence.)     

In Christ we are one and in His name, we pray…

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name.  Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.  Give us this day our daily bread.  Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.  And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.  For Thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever.  AMEN.

 

Hymn  A Mighty Fortress (first and last verses)

 

Scripture Readings

 

Old Testament: Joshua 24:1-3a, 14-25

 

New Testament: Matthew 25:1-13

 

Sermon –  Just like the hymns, you can click on the sermon title to hear/watch a video of today’s sermon via YouTube.  If you watch closely, I have an unexpected visitor – Quaker, one of our cats, makes a quick appearance.

 

“As for Me and My House…”

(based on Joshua 24:1-3a, 14-25)

 

            I have served the church as a pastor for over 30 years, but not all of them have been as a full-time pastor.  During many of them I’ve had to find additional means of employment.   And in those years I have done some interesting things, some of those other pieces of part-time employment have lasted a year or less, while others have lasted a long time.   I’ve served as a hospice chaplain, a bookstore owner, a database input officer, a warehouse stock boy, an office manager, an employment coach, and as an English language tutor.  There is a line from the Sound of Music when Maria is meeting with the Mother Superior and she asked Maria, “Why did you come to us?”  Maria responds with something about escaping her problems and the Abbess says to her, “Maria, these walls were not meant to shut out problems, but to face them.”

            I think the benefit of my serving the church in multiple years as a part-time pastor and having to find other means of employment have kept me from escaping behind these walls and the security of just a pastor’s desk.  It has forced me to notice the world around me and the people who really live in it each and every day.  Because of that I think I see the world, view the world, interact with the world from a unique perspective, both as a pastor and as just a regular guy going about his day’s work.  I think it has helped me be deeply rooted in my faith, but also deeply rooted in understanding how difficult daily life with work, commutes, schedules, kids, bills, obligations, and allegiances can truly be.

            Over the years, I’ve sat in meetings over a cup of coffee in neighborhood diners and coffee shops, in employee kitchens or breakrooms, or in dedicated conference rooms;  I’ve eaten meals in fancy restaurants, the local dive or at fast food restaurants, and yes, I’ve even been known to have drinks with friends at a local bar; in it all, I’ve listened to other people’s conversations.  I’m not normally a nebby person out in public, listening to what other people are saying, but two things happened very close together a few years ago and it’s made me more aware of things.

            The first thing that happened was this…I met with one of our Presbytery’s branch leaders a few years ago.  We met for coffee at a tiny little dive of a sandwich shop on the North Side.  At the table next to us were two men – they looked like laborers of some sort – perhaps road crew or construction workers.  I heard one of them say to the other, “I can’t wait until this weekend, the wife and I aren’t doing anything but staying home.  Last weekend we got totally trashed which made Monday a (and I’ll substitute the word he used with ‘a difficult day’)”.  The other man chuckled a bit and responded, “well my brother and I are helping the woman next door to him.  Her porch is collapsing and needs to be completely torn down.  Last weekend, he and I got a most of the material we need and this weekend we are going to try and tear down the porch and start the foundation.”

The other man, who used much more colorful language that I’m editing said, “I wouldn’t help the blank people that live next to me even if their house caught on fire.  They are worthless pieces of trash.  (again, an edited version of what he actually said.)”

His companion asked, “Really that bad?”

He responded with more colorful language talking about letting them burn.

At that point, I didn’t really want to hear the rest of the conversation but I couldn’t help it.

The less colorful language man said, “Well, I was always taught that you helped your neighbors.  At least, that’s what my parents and my church taught me.”

The colorful language man said, “Yeah, well, the Bible also says that God helps those who help themselves and these people who live next to me are living off of my dime because they are nothing but welfare crackheads.”

“You know the Bible doesn’t actually say that, right? “  His companion said.

And he responded, “I don’t really give a blank what the Bible says, I just hate people who are living off of my hard-earned money just so they can waste it on alcohol, drugs and cigarettes.”

The other man than asked, “Have you ever had a conversation with them?”

“Why the blank would I do that?” colorful language man said.

“I don’t know, maybe so they could see you as more than just a prejudiced jerk and maybe you could start seeing them as human beings.”

“Believe me, they are nothing but trash.”  And I stopped listening.

Choose today who you will serve…as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.

The following week, I was having dinner with a friend of mine at Caffe Notte in Ben Avon as we celebrated a belated birthday dinner for both of us.  Two couples were sitting at the table next to us.  As my dinner companion and I talked I couldn’t help but overhear bits and pieces of the next table’s conversation, especially as I kept hearing large monetary numbers casually thrown out by one of them.  $30,000 here, half a million dollars there.  My interest peaked when I heard one of them mention buying a house in Sante Fe, New Mexico.  One of the places that I have visited and have fallen in love with.

“My real estate agent was able to get this house for us at a steal due to a nasty divorce settlement from what they said.  Neither the husband nor the wife want the other to get a dime.  Hey, that’s fine with me.  We got it for about $600,000.”  “You aren’t moving are you?” the opposite couple’s wife asked.

“No, we’re just going to use it as one of our vacation homes.”

“Oh, that’s right, you still have a vacation home down in the Keys, right?”

“Yes, Key Largo, actually – we like it better than Key West, much more laid back without all the tourists.  We have a home up in Canada, too on the lake.  Next week we are going up there to close it for the winter and drydock the boat.  We’re probably going to have it completely overhauled and sell next year if you know anyone who wants to buy a yacht.  It’s really too big of a boat for up there.  The Lake is huge, but I’d rather have a smaller schooner or something.”

“Well, we don’t really know anyone that would want to buy a boat, we don’t exactly operate in the same circles as you do.  We have a hard enough time trying to raise a couple thousand dollars every year for our kids’ mission trips.”

“Oh, that’s right, you guys do that church thing.”

“Yes, our daughter is going to Nicaragua over Christmas break and our son is trying to get enough money together to go to Indonesia next year.  He is about $4500 short, but we’re helping him as much as we can.  Most of our family and friends have all sponsored him…he’s sort of on his second wave of requests.”

“That’s right, I think we got his letter asking for support.  It’s so nice that they can do that.”

There was a lot of silence at the table for a while and small talk that I didn’t really hear.

But I never once heard the couple who was boasting about all their money and all the homes that they own offer to support the other couple’s son in anyway.

Choose this day whom you shall serve…as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.

Those two very different conversations, and yet very similar caused me to listen more and wonder….who or what gods do people serve today.  Over the years, I’ve learned that it seems that most people definitely have a religion that they enthusiastically follow.  That most people are passionate about their faith, their beliefs, their values.  And that most people have found a god to believe in – but often those gods are money, power, or self.

My last example doesn’t come from a conversation I overheard but rather a story about Nelson Mandela’s life from the book Chicali Wall by Echeverría Martínez.

After becoming President, I asked some of my bodyguard members to go for a walk in town.  After the walk, we went for lunch at a restaurant.  We sat in one of the most central ones, and each of us asked what we wanted.  After a bit of waiting, the waiter who brought our menus appeared, at that moment I realized that at the table that was right in front of ours there was a single man waiting to be served.

When he was served, I told one of my soldiers: go ask that man to join us.  The soldier went and transmitted my invitation.  The man stood up, took the plate and sat next to me.  While eating, his hands were constantly shaking and he didn't lift his head from the food. When we finished, he waved at me without even looking at me, I shook his hand and walked away!

Soldier said to me:

- Madiba, that man must be very sick as his hands wouldn't stop shaking while he was eating.

Not at all!  The reason for his tremor is another - I replied.  They looked at me weird and said to them:

- That man was the guardian of the jail I was locked up in.  Often, after the torture I was subjected to, I screamed and cried for water and he came to humiliate me, he laughed at me and instead of giving me water he urinated on my head.

He wasn't sick, he was scared and shook maybe fearing that I, now that I'm president of South Africa, would send him to jail and do the same thing he did with me, torturing and humiliating him.  But that's not me, that behavior is not part of my character nor my ethics.  Minds that seek revenge destroy states, while those that seek reconciliation build Nations.′′

            Joshua gave the people of Israel, the followers of the God of Abraham and Isaac and Jacob, the God of Moses who delivered his people out of bondage in Egypt, an opportunity to choose which god they would serve.  He told them that today they needed to decide whether to embrace the gods of their ancestors before Abraham or to embrace the new gods of the land in which they were living or to serve God, with a capital “G”, Yahweh, the Lord, the great I AM.  Joshua told the people that you cannot serve the Lord and serve other gods.  At the time, the people responded that they would follow the example of Joshua and choose God.  Have you truly made that choice for yourself and for your whole house?  Are you truly serving God, the one and only God, in all you do or are you of a split allegiance?

            Choose this day whom you shall serve…as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.   Thanks be to God.

 

Hymn  Jesus Calls Us (all verses)

 

Benediction

We do not know the day or the hour, but we do know that God goes with us at all hours, on all days.  Go with the love of God, the peace of Christ, and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit.  We go to witness and serve!  AMEN.

 

Postlude